A real sign of healing is when you stop taking everything personally. You begin to see that people act from their own patterns, their own wounds, their own stories. Their behavior is about them, not you. And the moment you understand that, life feels lighter.
Please stop telling people y’all business when y’all going through hardships. You can't imagine the conversations being had with people y’all trust, in rooms y’all never even been in. And not one of them being a helping hand. People really get off seeing you down. Stay quiet, stick through it and trust nobody.
Everyone wants a good woman. Until they realize that good women come with standards, priorities and boundaries. Now suddenly she's difficult, controlling, cold and "doing too much."
going through a phase rn, i think i've finally came in terms w letting a lot of stuff go. including, feelings, ppl, fears, just everything. it's time for new beginnings, new chapters that brings happiness, love &' endless memories. it's time to move on w life.
“Men suffer in silence."
No, they don’t. They treat everyone around them like dogshit.
They externalize their feelings onto the women closest to them, usually.
No one can ever manipulate me into believing I took any response to mistreatment “too far.” Too many of you are entitled and delusional. Don’t play with people and hope they silently accept your idiocy. I, for one, will always take it there. So go bother someone else please!