J₁ Mainer™

[J₁ Mainer™ @jeofMb]

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Maine Mendoza 26in3Days
@mainedcm Ⓜ #MaineMendoza
#aMAINEzingat26

[J₁ Mainer™ @jeofMb]

Salamat sa pagiging inspirasyon... And always remember that you are absolutely unique! Enjoy your special day to the fullest. 💛💛💛

@mainedcm | #MaineMendoza
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@dangzb

[J₁ Mainer™ @jeofMb]

Still.. My ONLY!

@mainedcm | #MaineMendoza
#MaineAt31

[Juliet Javier @JulietJavier90]

Ctto-My always and forever,love you Meng.

[Juliet Javier @JulietJavier90]

Ctto-Come what may Meng andito ako lagi https://t.co/t45uax8fw5 you forever and stay happy!❤️

[Maine Mendoza @mainedcm]

Hi everyone. I realized my initial reaction when the issue first broke came across as informal and casual. Felt the need to speak out immediately after hearing the news and listening to Arjo’s side regarding the alleged ‘involvement’. Forgive me for speaking up again this time. I know it may be wiser to stay silent while the investigation is ongoing, but I cannot let my last tweet be my only statement.

I am well aware of the accusations, criticisms and judgments being thrown at my husband, me, and our family. After being bombarded with vile remarks the past 48 hours, I will not pretend they don’t sting, but I will also not allow lies to define who we are.

Not a single part of our life has been built on taxpayers’ money. Everything we have comes from years of work and savings. We pay our taxes, and we pay them truthfully, because we respect the same system we are accused of betraying. Both of us (and our families) are financially capable of sustaining the lives that we live, and it’s personally offensive to be accused of spending money that we have rightfully earned outside politics. It’s unfair to reduce everything that we are and everything that we have worked for to that single narrative.

I will never accept the narrative that accuses us of stealing and living off taxpayers’ money. That is not who Arjo is, that is not who I am, and that is not who we are—no amount of noise and accusations will ever make it true. And if Arjo ever did anything dishonest, if he were truly guilty, I certainly wouldn’t defend him and cover for him. Accuse him of other things if you wish, but not of stealing from people—that is one line he has never crossed, and never will.

I get that the current allegations, photos taken out of context, and the stories being spread online may look different to some. But let’s not forget that perception is not always reality. Narratives can be twisted so easily, and many are quick to believe what fits their perspective. But the truth always finds its way to light and that’s what we are holding on to.

And when the truth comes out, I hope those who judged and condemned us so quickly—especially those who filled platforms and our spaces with all sorts of hate—also take a moment to recognize how harsh and hasty their judgments were. But we all know that rarely happens. Because even when the truth is presented, some would rather ignore it and just keep on condemning.

It is truly distressing to see people suffer in times of crisis because of corrupt politicians who put self-interest above all else, alongside their accomplices. Nakakagalit talaga. And we also believe those who are truly guilty should face accountability. Again, the truth will reveal itself in the end. We can only hope and pray that the justice system delivers justice to those who deserve it and to whom it’s due. I know we may be easy targets, but you are condemning the wrong people.

I understand that people will choose to believe what they want to believe, and some will continue to mock, criticize, and crucify us no matter what. But legal actions will be taken, and Arjo will clear his name by proving his innocence. Let’s allow due process to run its course before we condemn. God knows the truth, and we stand with clean hands.

Remember the three sides to every story: their version, our version, and the truth. And we are confident that we stand on the side of truth. Arjo has nothing to hide. He has never been guilty of stealing. I’ll end with this, not all politicians are corrupt—some are just convenient targets. The real villains are celebrating quietly in the shadows.

[Maine Mendoza @mainedcm]

Okay, so about the last podcast episode.. Una sa lahat, I didn’t think the part about my story with Alden would spark controversy, let alone be a big deal, considering that everyone had already moved on from Kalyeserye and AlDub. From the start, I hoped the clashes between fans on both sides would end, at least, even though the hate train aimed at me was nonstop then and apparently still remains so.

The point of our podcast is to look back on Kalyeserye and to discuss and share behind-the-scenes stories—the untold ones—and that can include personal experiences, narratives, and sentiments. I believe it’s acceptable to reflect and openly discuss them for this podcast, especially now that it’s been a decade and all is well between the individuals involved, particularly me and Alden. There is no reason to exclude him from the story/our stories, despite his absence, because he was a big part of Kalyeserye—and it would have felt strange to leave him out. That said, there was no intention to provoke criticism or negativity towards him or anyone else. I was asked, I answered, and I shared a short anecdote.

I believe it’s not a bad thing to share a personal story related to the question and topic, as long that it’s based on facts. There was no malice or ill intent behind my sharing that story about myself, him, and us. There are countless other stories I’ve kept to myself and chosen not to share. You know how podcasts work; they can be really personal, but ours didn’t even go that far. All stories shared were surface-level.

But the biggest question will always be: why do we get criticized for saying our truth and the truth? And why is it when we do, some people resort to personal attacks meant to demean and harm? I get that we have supporters who aren’t really fans of the other, but why the hostility? Why pit a woman against a man, as if there’s a competition for who’s more “successful”? Success, in this sense, is ridiculously measured and defined by career “achievements” as if our lives revolve solely around our jobs. In the grand scheme of things, what is really there to prove? All the hatred and comparisons—what for, really?

All is well among the dabarkads. We’ve all moved on, and the past remains there. We can revisit and reflect on the good and the bad with a peaceful heart. Ten years on, we are all living the lives we chose, and I hope we can keep moving forward without nurturing hate—because what’s the point? What do we gain from hostility? Again, in the grand scheme of things, what truly needs proving? Find your own answer. Let’s live for what makes us happy and make life less complicated and chaotic.

Life is short. When our time comes and memories flash before our eyes, don’t let yours be filled the moments you spewed negativity online. Don’t let it be your only contribution in this life. Ang dami pang pwedeng gawin sa buhay bukod sa pagiging tambay sa internet at pagiging hater. There’s another world of better things to do. Leave a better trace. 🤍

[J₁ Mainer™ @jeofMb]

2 Years down.. FOREVER to go!

No one deserves ‘happily ever after’ more than the TWO of YOU!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!

@mainedcm Ⓜ #MaineMendoza
@AtaydeArjo
#MaineMendozaAtayde

[Mavick 💛ᴹᴬᴵᴺᴱ💛 @Mavick6719]

Happy happy birthday sa pinaka maganda sa Mendoza….Nay @macmendoza75 🎂🥂😘😘….2nd ka lang Meng ha!😁 @mainedcm

Enjoy your day….Love you always! See you soon!😊

ctto

[MAINEnatics BULACAN @MAINEnatics_BU]

"Thanks for putting more life in Eat Bulaga!" - @AngPoetNyo

@mainedcm | #MaineMendoza
#Maine10thAnniversary

[Mavick 💛ᴹᴬᴵᴺᴱ💛 @Mavick6719]

Hi @mainedcm, happy happy 10th amminversary!😘😘👏👏🙏🙏

Mula Yayadub hanggang ngayon Mrs. Atayde ka na, dito pa din ako rooting for you! You will be my forever happy pill!

Love you from moon to back!💛💛💛

#MaineMendoza
#Maine10thAnniversary

[⭐'Lyn15'⭐ @itzmemylene]

Happy 10th year sa dami ng artista ikaw lng talaga yung sinubaybayn ko mula noon gng ngayon 💛

#MaineMendoza | @mainedcm
#Maine10thAnniversary

[𝕾ð𝖋ïå❣︎ᴹᵃⁱⁿᵉʳ @sofiadeicm]

Happy 10th year Anniversary in Showbiz, MaineGirl 💛

#Maine10thAnniversary
#MaineMendoza ♡ @mainedcm

[GEE @meynDEIcm]

Happy 10 years @mainedcm. Still here and will always be here silently cheering for you. Labyu! 💛

[eLvs @elvssszzz]

Wearing a polka dot dress today, you never forget. And we also always remember. Happy #Maine10thAnniversary to your first TV appearance, @mainedcm 💛

[당 Dang 💛 메인⭐ᴹᵃᶦⁿᵉʳ💛 @dangzb]

Happy 10th, my Maine girl! 💛💛💛

#MaineMendoza @mainedcm
#Maine10thAnniversary

[MaineTrendsetterOFC @MAiNETrendOFC]

Happy 10th to you, @mainedcm 💛

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#Maine10thAnniversary

[tati ᴹᴬᴵᴺᴱ @violahabon]

Happy 10th Showbiz Anniversary, Meng! 💛😍🥰 @mainedcm #Maine10thAnniversary #MaineMendoza

[J₁ Mainer™ @jeofMb]

STILL & ALWAYS my only ONE. 💛💛💛

@mainedcm | #MaineMendoza
#Maine10thAnniversary

[J₁ Mainer™ @jeofMb]

Happiest Birthday, @mainedcm!
May your year ahead be as amazing as you are.

#MaineMendoza
#MaineGoingOnThirty
#MaineAt30

[tati ᴹᴬᴵᴺᴱ @violahabon]

All the best, Meng! 😍💛😘 @mainedcm #MaineMendoza