Life is too short. Love out loud, make those plans, speak to your friends, make every moment as special as possible. You never know when someone’s last day will be.
Hadn’t seen my boyfriend in over a week, and when we finally sat down for dinner, he pulled out a piece of paper and said, “I’ve got so much tea to spill that I wrote it all down so I wouldn’t forget anything.” 😭😂
Only a woman can write a scene like this bec this is exactly what women do in love and hope that men do for them. To be loved is to have someone listen to the song you mentioned, or watch a movie you like. Always the little things.
Women are sharing live locations, checking the backseats of cars, carrying their keys between their knuckles and holding their hands over their drinks.
Men are doing 3 hour podcasts about how unfair it is that women don't smile at them.
People say:
"She's so lucky her partner works so hard she can stay home with the kids"
No one says:
"He's so lucky she's paused her entire identity, put her career on ice, let her ambition shrink, in the name of stability, sacrificed her salary, and sanity so their kids could grow up held, heard and safe"
They see comfort."
They don't see the cost.
Marry someone who thinks everything about you is a big deal.
Your birthday.Favorite Flower . Favorite Food . Favorite place. Business deals.
You in general .
A big deal!
In 2023, I dated a guy who forgot my birthday and sent me money at 7 p.m. to make up for it.
(I sent it back and blocked him.)
In 2024, I dated another guy who asked what I wanted for my birthday even asked my shoe and clothing size. I gave him all the details, and when my birthday came? Nothing. Not a single gift. I cut him off after that.
Then in 2025, my birthday (in November) came around. The man I was dating just four months in asked what I wanted, and I said, “Aspen.” A week later, the trip was booked. When we got back, I was met with flowers, champagne, and a charcuterie board waiting for me.
Why am I telling you this?
Because I want you to remember:
A. Don’t stay with a man who forgets about you.
B. Don’t stay with a man who overpromises and never delivers.
C. Wait for the man who shows up, goes above and beyond, and means what he says.
D. Don’t close your heart just because others disappointed you.
There is a man out there who can, who will, and who wants to do it all for you.
BARE MINIMUM
• Opens the door
• Replies to your story
• Buys a gift after a fight
• Holds her bag when she's tired
• Asks if she ate or drank water
• Holds her hand in public
• Pulls the chair for her
PRINCESS TREATMENT
• Ties her shoes
• Breakfast in bed
• Gives her massages
• Tracks her periods & cravings
• Plans at least one surprise date night every month
• Takes candid pictures of her secretly
Run Away on Netflix has to be the single worst collective performance by a group of actors in a TV show ever. Every single performance is SHOCKING. Zero acting ability amongst the entire cast. #netflix#RunawayTheSeries#RunAway
I'm getting to the age where I don't like when y'all make fun of people who are just being themselves & minding their own business. That's real ugly to me.