You deserve a healthy love with someone who sees you, hears you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you and loves you. You deserve to be with someone who brings you peace, calmness and consistency. A gentle love that brings out your soft side – not your survival side.
The perfect cross between visualizer & music video for my joint single w/ @TylerGMcNeil , "Say The Word" off our upcoming EP, "You Know Where to Find Me" dropping this Thursday, August 17th, 2023. Visual also available on youtube now!
Losing yourself is WAY worse than “losing” someone else. Remember that when you find yourself clinging to a connection that makes you doubt your worth, feel ashamed and question things about yourself that you never questioned before. ALWAYS choose losing them over losing YOU.
It's not unrealistic to want a partner who adores you. It's not unrealistic to want to be with someone who enhances your life, makes you feel special, safe and cherished. Wanting someone to truly care about you? The same way that you care? You deserve that. Don't settle for less.
A healing stage is disgust. Yes, disgust. You will be DISGUSTED by the people whose love you sought. You will feel embarrassed about the choices you made and the people who had access to you who didn’t deserve it. Feel this feeling then let it go.
That will NEVER be you again.
Find someone who will love the depressed you, happy you, growing you, worst you, and indecisive you. Without calling you crazy or toxic for not being able to understand you