Regardless of what I go through I still be feeling like the chosen one. . . Like it’s something about me it be too many signs & I can’t wait to unlock all that
The problem is a lot of yall niggas did not grow up seeing your moms be pampered.. yall either saw y’all mommas working like dawgs, on drugs, with an abusive ass man or collective government assistance struggling to make ends meet.. a lot of y’all grew up with all half siblings and absent fathers, so you genuinely don’t know what the man’s role is supposed to be and that’s why a lot of yall can’t fathom giving a woman a soft life and being a provider bc you grew up believing women are supposed to be strong and take care of you! A lot of you niggas don’t even know to hold the door or walk on the outside of the sidewalk bc the only protector you ever had was a woman! Lmao
As a hyper independent girly (to a fault) I do not like asking for shit, it makes me uncomfortable. That's why I like men who just DO. Don't ask just figure out what i need/ want & DO IT.
Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.
Do not let people gaslight you into thinking that duality does not exist. You can be grateful and annoyed. You can want more and be grateful for what you have. You can be angry and frustrated and still be grateful. A lot of religious and spiritual gaslighting out here.
I’m at that weird age where every younger person I meet makes me realize how much l've aged, and every older person I meet makes me realize I'm still a baby.
As a woman, I don't want financial independence just for money. I want it so no one else ever gets to decide my life for me. I'm tired of the feeling that someone else's support comes with conditions, that my choices have to fit into someone else's comfort. I want to earn my own space, my own voice, my own freedom not to prove anything to the world, but to feel safe inside my own life. Maybe independence isn't about being strong all the time, maybe it's just about knowing that no one has the power to take away your choices again..
If I’m going to get married and you want me to have your children, I need to be ridiculously spoiled, extremely loved, and put on a pedestal because a ring is not enough.
One thing I love about me and my friends is we can talk about our goals, our future, niggas, and mess all in the same conversation. I don’t wanna sit around talking about vision boards all day I’m not that grown yet 😭
Highly recommend letting people know you're capable of madness from time to time. Especially if you're a quiet, soft spoken person. Disrespect sometimes needs to be met with disrespect.. let mfers know you can go from 0-100 real quick.