somnophilia with established consent is not sa. idk who told u that it is but it isnt you personally can be weirded out by the concept but that doesnt make it morally wrong esp when it was discussed in private
purity culture is so ridiculous and i cant believe how prevalent its become in fandom
hc-ing your ship as doing a kink consensually is not a crime nor a reason for dramatics
this probably goes hard if ur cosplay is of someone who wears a skirt or sth and it definitely does not go hard if you're wearing a cosplay that takes 23 minutes to take off and breaks if u make any sudden movements