@RealDonaldDoo Itโs almost as if marriage is treated as a mystical realm where normal decision-making no longer applies. This approach has delayed many people, making them overly cautious or even paranoid about missing "God's will" in marriage.
@RealDonaldDoo Godโs will ("the one" as she has presumed)is not a secret code that we must decode through mystical experiences. Scripture shows that God has given us wisdom, the Holy Spirit, and sound judgment to make decisions.
@RealDonaldDoo My point is "she spiritualized everything". Love isnโt about finding a perfect, preordained match.
Itโs about choosing, committing, and making it work. If a person believes their spouse is "the one" only because of prior destiny, they might not work on their marriage.