Forgive your old self, you did what you knew. Let it go. You've changed. What happened, happened. The essence of life is to keep on moving. Life is nothing but change. You're not what you were a month ago, a day ago, not even a moment ago. When you accept this truth, you heal.
With full blown narcissistic abuse, they'll attempt to destroy their victim's entire life
They'll influence the people around their target to participate. This may be family, friends, co-workers, neighbors anybody
They basically surround their victim, while creating a smear campaign. It can be devastating & should be a crime with legal consequences