sincere is an actual emotional terrorist. because what would possess him to tell melanie that he wants her to be his wife and mother of his children after mentally abusing her the whole summer???
Underrated mental health hack: Have something to look forward to. It doesn't have to be big. A dinner plan. A weekend walk. A show tonight. Your nervous system needs reminders that life isn't just responsibilities and survival.
Sex is a plus... but I wanna feel beautiful, wanted, loved and appreciated. I want to be in love... freely. I want a mutual understanding that we are on a mission to keep love alive. I want to never go to bed mad. I want conversations, communication. Fun. Unconditional love.
I used to tell myself “maybe they're going through something” to justify the way people treated me. But then I realised I was going through a lot too, and I still never treated anyone that way.
Me apaixonei por essa frase:
Se você ganha o seu próprio dinheiro e faz tudo por si mesma, um homem não tem muito a oferecer além do caráter, dos valores e da forma como te trata.
What the mainstream media is not showing you: A massive crowd of 100,000 Minnesotans showed up in Minneapolis to protest the pedophile führer and his Nazi ICE Gestapo. 🙌💪👏✊️👇
I wanna marry into a funcional family... when they have cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners and bday parties...I wanna be able to go get breakfast with my mother in law & go shopping with their siblings. I don't want it to be just "US" I want a family that's oriented.
realizing that you're incompatible with someone (because they don't meet your basic standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) and choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/ blaming yourself/ fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. look how much you've grown
as his private property for 23 years. He cut off the limbs of Congolese who did not meet their daily quota on the plantation. At the end of his rule, he had killed 15million Congolese people. But we are taught only about Hitler
My father once told me the secret to a happy marriage.
“Stay out of the kitchen. Let her handle the holidays.”
I was 19. He was in his recliner.
My mother was cooking for 14 people.
She’d been up since 5 AM.
He’d been up since the football pregame.
I didn’t think anything of it.
That’s just how it was.
Fast forward 20 years.
I’m in the recliner.
My wife is in the kitchen.
She’s been up since 5 AM.
I’ve been up since the pregame.
My daughter walks by and I see her watching.
Not the TV.
Her mother.
Then me.
Then her mother again.
That’s when it hit me:
She’s taking notes.
My father taught me that holidays were for men to rest and women to work.
He didn’t say it.
He showed it.
Every Thanksgiving.
Every Christmas.
Every Easter.
The recliner passed from him to me like an inheritance I never asked for.
This morning I woke up at 4 AM.
Not for content.
For the turkey.
My wife found me in the kitchen at 6.
She didn’t say anything.
She just stood there.
Then she cried.
Your kids are taking notes.
Not on what you say.
On where you sit.
The recliner is an inheritance.
Be the generation that stands up.