“missed opportunities were not actually missed. they were either: not written for me in the first place. or not written for me in that moment. or removed before they could harm me in ways I was too limited to see.” oh to reach this level of tawakkul ☹️
Date someone who is genuinely curious about you. Not just someone who finds you attractive or funny, but someone who wants to know you. Someone who remembers the tiny details, reads the things you write, listens to the songs you love, watches your favorite movies, asks about the stories behind your scars, remembers your oddly specific preferences, and wants to understand what makes your mind light up. Attraction says, “I like what I see.” Interest says, “I want to know everything there is to see.”