Homo La Flor 🥀

If Celia Cruz and Bernie Mac birthed a butch queen.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

Mental wellness is costly. Let me go back to being unhinged and cussing bitches out. That was cathartic…and free.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

I really spent $150 on a 30 minute check-in that actually only lasted maybe 15 minutes that that my practitioner was 20 minutes late for 🙃

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

and one day, you’ll be in your house, playing your favorite music as you make your favorite meal for dinner and you’ll realise that you’re living an answered prayer

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

Someone gives you a “maybe”, they’re automatically wasting your time. Someone can holds a boundary or disagrees with you, they’re cold or toxic. Everyone wants closeness, but on their own terms. Mutuality be damned lol.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

I think a major reason dating has become so fucked is that so many people have a low threshold for discomfort. The second something makes one uncomfortable, instead of leaning, they cut and run. Avoidance masquerading as boundaries and self respect.

[uncle vaun. @_Vaun]

solange lives her life in a way that i aspire. one minute she's curating some super artsy shit, then she's at a random rappers show, then she's on a yacht, then she's in nature bathing in a waterfall, then she's at a fashion show in the latest pieces. need that level of freedom.

[Your Emotional Healing Coach @AfsaRosette]

Maturing is realising your anxious attachment is also a trauma response.
Not just the avoidant. You too.

[stressed @onlystresstoday]

ngl I feel like everything that happened these last 6 months needed to happen. to allow me to see everybody ain’t for me, learning to set boundaries , learning to stop over sharing and over playing my part.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

I have this deep and unshakable faith that everything will work out for me. There may be times where things look and feel slow to come to fruition but i never let go of that faith, it keeps me going.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

She Wants Revenge doesn’t get their points and that doesn’t sit well with me.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

@thiccmatisse Lol TRULY. I’ve been deep in pop-psych spaces and the lack of accountability is maddening.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

Starting to believe more and more that if you’re constantly having to “protect your peace”, you never had it. And likely rarely bring peace to others lol.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

No one’s perfect. But you can’t demand care and clarity when you sew confusion, guilt, and fear.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

I’ve been diving a lot into attachment theory and spaces. And I’m realizing a lot of people don’t use it as a tool to understand, do their work, and grow. But rather as an excuse to hide behind. Much like people and their zodiac signs.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

“I’m anxious. Reassure me.” That’s valid. But are you doing the vulnerable thing and stating that’s what you need? Or engaging in manipulative “protest behaviors”/guilt trips then acting gagged when someone can’t read your mind/disengages?

[billy chapata. @iambrillyant]

your capacity to hold other people’s weight, worries and concerns does not make it your responsibility to carry them. know the difference between selflessness and self sabotage.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

Someone (respectfully) standing firm in their stance doesn’t make them toxic/unsafe. They just disagree, and that’s okay.

[Homo La Flor 🥀 @jlevares]

I feel like a lot of people conflate someone being a good communicator with simply acquiescing to their point of view.