@muheediva01 Just lived with a lady who did this to appear like she would do anything for you meanwhile me and the other flatmate covers the rent 350 each a week whilst she only pays bills 450-500 a month . We both pay 1400 a month . I knew when I was told her own kids donโt talk to her.
@benonwine They listen more than they speak. They take in all information without the need to place in their opinion. Another is not participating in gossip or rumours - they simply remove themselves.
@wisdomXplorer Any advice - people only give it from the life they have lived . Thatโs not your path you have to trust yourself . 100% every time I took others advice it backfired.
@muheediva01 I confronted her about something she did to me when we were young and I swept it under the rug. She made me the problem . Accountability is a hard trait to accept for many people.
@muheediva01 Sometimes you have to have hard conversations to maintain the friendship not everything needs to be ghosted and cancelled . Address it no matter how awkward it may be.
@muheediva01 Betrayal from my sister . Finding out for years she was secretly talking shit behind my back while always offering kindness. Then I got blamed when I called her out - she has done everything for me and I have done nothing for her. Broke me to my core.
@omgsidewalks Cause if I am around people with bad energy it leads to self sabotage because you simply want to escape reality sometimes, we feel and understand everything so much we canโt even understand the power it has. Rather isolate then ruin myself for the sake of others anymore.
@thrluv Just lived with one of the worst manipulators I have come across . As soon as he messaged the other flatmate and exposed himself . Boom , bye . I have become so good at exposing people because I attract them like flies to shit.