top 5 female experiences:
- realizing ur kinda chopped
- getting called fat for the first time
- realizing it was SA
- developing an ED
- crashing out over a guy you never even dated
And what gets me is some of the people who present themselves as the MOST pro-Black and the most “woke” be the quickest to judge urban Black people. You can’t stand tall in your Blackness while constantly looking down on Black people who express theirs differently than you do. That’s not pro-Blackness if only one version of Blackness gets your respect.