The saddest reality is when a man makes money, his biggest dream is to give it to the people he loves, starting with his wife.
And when a woman makes money, her biggest dream is to be independent, keep it to herself, and spend it on herself.
She doesn't even wanna have a husband.
She just wants to be free and this explains why marriages where the woman earns more than the man are doomed to fail.
Sexual rejection breaks a man's spirit, damages the relationship bond, and teaches him that the deepest part of him is unwelcome in his own home.
That is not a small issue. That is marital negligence.
You wanna lose your man? It's simple:
-Talk down to him.
-Criticize him.
-Constantly remind him of everything he's doing wrong.
-Make him feel insignificant in your day to day.
-Remind him of all the mistakes he keeps making and has made in the past, even if it was years ago.
-Don't ever appreciate him.
-Never tell him that you're proud of him.
-Don't ever tell him that you love him.
-Don't respect him and blow up in his face every once in a while.
If you wanna lose your man, do that. If you don't wanna lose your man, don't do any of that. Fix your bad behaviors, fix your bad habits, and learn to respect your man.
My Uncle who battled mental illness from a very young age disappeared without a trace after being taken to a Pentecostal church in Mutundwe to be "healed"
Our family hasn't been the same for the last 10 years without him...
As laban and kwizera were still influencers of that bar in Ntinda, one Saturday laban posted & i commented that l’m coming, he instantly followed me, inboxed me and we planned, i fulfilled, went there & bought liquor 🍹🥃 of 400k using mobile money with smiles on his face, Boom tomorrow morning “sunday”he unfollowed me, nolonger giving fuck, i made sure i do reversal. Faking smiles is something i don’t torelate
Sexual intimacy has never been ONLY intercourse.
It includes kissing, hand-holding, massage, nude closeness, lingering touch, playful affection, and the thousand little physical signals that remind two people they are lovers and not merely roommates managing a life together.
There are billions of women alive. Prettier women. Kinder women. Smarter women. More loyal women. More peaceful women. Your scarcity mindest is lying to you.