Cheating is abuse and it's weird how yall try to downplay it. It's not just a character flaw, it's a moral one. Cheating can cause psychological damage, long-term trust issues, insecurities, panic attacks, and PTSD, just to name a few. You are psychologically scarring the person who loves you more than anything in the world. I'm so sick of this debate. You don't get to traumatize someone, rewire their brain chemistry, and then say "it's not that bad"
The fact that you cannot check into a hotel until 4pm when the day is basically over but have to check out by 10am the next morning should honestly be illegal.