Jeovad94$BEYOND

Cool, Calm and Collected.... #3pul C.

[Jeovad94$BEYOND @joevad94]

@SmartPicksPro @FDSportsbook Spain all the way

[Ghost Writer ✍️ @Prezain_LJ]

Be nonchalant when it comes to women. In fact, the more nonchalant you are, the more women you tend to attract. Treat everything about dating and pursuing women casually. Don't carry anything woman-related on your head.

I've lived my life this way for a long time, and it has given me so much peace of mind. I can have 99 problems, but women or relationship wahala are never one of them.

[Jeovad94$BEYOND @joevad94]

@Wizarab10 You said it already 😢😢😢

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

That I understand what he meant is funny as hell

[Jeovad94$BEYOND @joevad94]

@kaymicky007 Exactly 💯

[Heart Mattaz by Rita @HeartMattaz]

100%📌📌📌📌📌

1. You won't see him playing with his worth and what will make him happy📌

2. They are always nonchalant especially when it comes to women who want to be pampered or told what to do as adults📌

3. They have time to nurture a woman📌

4. They keep to their time and their yes is yes and no is no📌

5. They don't use money to prove their love for a woman; either you love them or not📌

6. They do not have a scarcity mindset📌

7. They don't stay where they are not welcome📌

8. They fuvck well📌

9. They always have a nice haircut, clean and well-ironed clothes📌

10. They smell masculine📌

11. They speak their minds📌

12. They are logical, not emotional📌

13. They are not obese📌

14. They don't fvck another man's wife📌

15. They don't stay in a toxic and unprogressive relationship📌

16. They don't step on a bro for their selfish interests📌

HeartMattaz

[KING CHIDI @guzu_p]

I was called a mad man.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Nigerian relationship interest me a lot.

If she makes it, she will disrespect him and the relationship is over. If he makes it, the woman is blessed and even credited with the good luck behind the success.

[Dr. Ose Etiobhio @osemagnum]

may the source of your daily bread not be taken from you

[Jeovad94$BEYOND @joevad94]

@mynne000 @Wizarab10 Exactly 💯

[TylaTattz @TylaTattz]

men are also allowed to not prefer you because you don’t have a car, a house, too many kids or no money….

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

We blame poverty for everything in this country. No it is not poverty. We are not the only country where there is majority poverty. It is a value system problem.

Our values are monetized.

Outside this Nigeria, poor people genuinely fall in love, students fall in love and commit - not because of what they expect but because the whole point of love is to create memories and enjoy the company of each other. Both parties look after each other and share the bills where necessary. I've seen 18 year old students, studying together and doing part time jobs and sharing the bills. That is love.

If you ask a Nigerian about love, they will tell you to experience love, you need to spend money - his money. We are damaged. Special moments are special because of special people - not because of how much you spent.

[Taiwo_junzi @taiwo_junzi]

A Must-Read for Both Men & Women!!!

What I want to say has been said over and time again. Yet, many of you have turned deaf ears on this matter!!!

Sadly, being Nigerian is one of the most difficult things in the world!!! Even war-torn countries have it much better than we do as a people.
You’re living in a country and an economy that’s designed to make you suffer and that’s why ordinary people will continue struggling.
And while you can’t choose the country you’re born into, you can’t choose your parents, cankerworms in power have made it such that you can do almost nothing to change the political and economic climate you’ve found yourself in, it’s expedient that you do not lose out on the only thing you can forge yourself - love and “community”.

Again, love should not be another luxury. It should be the one thing that helps people survive difficult times. So it’s strange when people tell hardworking adults to keep postponing love until they “make it”.

The reality is that many would still end up in low-paying hustles (teaching, local farming, small scale retail etc), even those earning moderately aren’t spared from the economic inconsistencies of this country, so for how long are you supposed to stay loveless?! Or in the guise of doubling one’s hustle, what more do you expect a dedicated teacher to do than organize tutorials and teach?! Is the economy not going to sap out most of the money he makes from all his hustle as a teacher?!
A farmer can farm more land, a trader can open shop earlier and close later. But none of that changes the fact that a bad economy will eat away all their income.

You can’t out-hustle a terrible economy so why are you subjecting yourselves to unrealistic love standards?!

Women, many of you have convinced yourselves that love must come with a certain lifestyle because that’s what social media sells. You want a man who already has everything, while refusing to see your own income as part of building a family. But ask yourself one question, where are these Odogwu men? Most of them are way older, already married, or are chasing women who expect less. Where does that lead you!??

Men, many of you are making the same mistake. You keep telling yourselves that you don’t deserve love until you’re rich. Some of you even leave women who are willing to build a life with you because you believe you must become a millionaire first. What you forget that is that most self-made millionaires become wealthy in their 40s or even later. Does that mean you should spend your youth alone, waiting for a future that isn’t guaranteed?!?!

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Many of your parents came from humble backgrounds. They built families with very little. Yes, it was harder but they made it work and your life is proof of that.
Today, many of you are educated and earning something, even if it isn’t much. That education should make you wiser, not more unrealistic. It should help you avoid wasting money on extravagant weddings just to impress some aunty or uncle from the village and people who won’t pay your bills. It should help you plan your family wisely, delay having children until you’re ready, and build together instead of trying to impress strangers.

Stop treating love as a reward for becoming rich!!!

If you’re responsible, hardworking, emotionally mature, and both of you genuinely desire one another and are willing to grow together, don’t let unrealistic expectations and “what will people say” rob you of love, something that money alone cannot buy.

Plan your life based on reality not social media fantasies!!!

Change or die!!!!!!

[Oyindamola @Kris_tia_na_]

The irony of love is that many of us have been both the victim and the villain. We mourn the hearts that rejected us but rarely pause to think about the hearts we quietly broke.

You’re someone’s unanswered prayer just as someone else was yours.

Life has a way of switching roles!!!.

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Everyone talks about how they gave up on love because the person they loved and wanted did not love them in return

Nobody talks about the people that loved and wanted them but they refused to reciprocate the love and attention. Do you know if they gave up on love because of you?

[Oyindamola @Kris_tia_na_]

The most expensive thing in Lagos isn’t rent, it’s access. Once you have access, you realize there’s a Lagos many people will never even see

Funny enough, two people can live on the same street and still exist in completely different Lagos. One is calculating transport fare while the other is deciding which country to fly to for the weekend.

[Pharaoh👳🏾‍♂️👑 @MrMekzy_]

You’re going through a rough patch and you reach out to your guy for financial assistance, he tells you that he’s not buoyant at the moment. You offer to sell your property and the same person agrees to buy it and you sell it to him cos you need the money. Is this a valid reason to put an end to the friendship?

[Rilwan @Real1_balogun]

@CalvinEmeka Owo wa, eyan tun wa 🤣

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

"Just say you're broke. Only broke men......"

No wahala. I am broke. I don talk am. Anything else?

[Enyinnaya @enyinna_]

When you understand what it is, you’ll log out. My actual expectations, simple as they were, were made to seem like madness. And the people who fought most fiercely against my own expectations of women were fellow men. To truly develop yourself, you must avoid many men.