If you are going to enter into the suffering of those who have been traumatized, you have to learn how to sit with and listen to fear, anger and great grief with compassion and understanding. You will also have to learn how to do it for far longer than you prefer.
and wouldn’t need him.
I want to serve a God who is bigger and wiser than I. At the end of of the day, I want to serve a God I don’t fully understand. In a strange way, that’s the only kind of God that makes sense to me.
If I was designing a god, I would design one who prevented his people from experiencing pain and suffering, among many other things. But I don’t serve a designer god. I serve the God who designs.
I don’t get to create him in my image. I’m created in his. So, as the creation,
And God’s will is exactly what I would do if I could see the world as he sees it. So I trust him when I don’t understand why difficult things happen, which is most of the time. After all, if I always understood what God did and what God allows, then I would know as much as him
Pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our consciences, but shouts in our pains. It is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world. CS Lewis
Our world is experiencing tremendous pain. Praying people will hear God speaking in the middle of it.
The hardest things to change are:
1. The things I grew up with that helped ME become who I am
2. Things I created that are no longer as effective as they once were
3. The things I like because they fit MY preferences
We often need an outsider to help us identify these.
There are communities in America so poor that they rival some of the world’s poorest places. Hard to fathom. These are hard places to start and sustain churches. One example is towns in the Arkansas Delta. What other poor communities and areas in U.S. need churches?
When you’re leading in a sticky situation and you don’t have the authority to do what you think needs to be done, often the best approach is to lead by helping others.
Sign on Ronald Reagan’s desk
There is no limit to what a man can do or where he can go if he does not mind who gets the credit
Much easier to say than live in a world where getting the credit for doing something is as (or more) important, than actually getting the thing done.
Growing churches often can’t afford to hire enough staff to keep up with growth, for one reason, because giving lags behind attendance. Declining churches often have increased giving even though they’re not bringing in new people. So they can afford to keep people on staff.
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