Joe s

“The ones in whom we place our greatest trust are best positioned to put the knife in our backs”

[ANNOUR @Annour_gaya]

No man comes into the life of any woman with bad intentions.

[Joe s @JohnsonSule]

@SirAlexanderrr I'm interested
12am -2am

[Joe s @JohnsonSule]

@ABUJAPLUG I'm interested in luxury interior design and solar/power solutions

[Brennan Schlagbaum, CPA @Budgetdog_]

Someone asked me today if they should wait to have children until they get their finances right.

My answer will surprise you: No.

Here’s why:

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

A man died of hunger, but food was served at his funeral. When you're less busy, think about it.

[Chief UC Maxwell, SAL 𓃵 @UkomahM]

Anything that will make you stand in the dock to start pleading Guilty or Not Guilty, run away from it.

You won't understand the degree of freedom you have until you have to start calling lawyers upandan for help.

That carton you're using to sleep and wake up at will is better than where you'll be locked up. 📸

[ayo ？ @ayblaack]

pesin go wan buy sub, you go first use 5mins dey look options 😭

[Joseph Brendan @Joe_brendan_]

Go to your neighborhood

Ask around let them tell you how many boys were into Yahoo since 2015

- How many of them are still into Yahoo now and are making a penny?

- How many fell into drugs because that's the lifestyle?

- How many ended up with kids they can't cater for now from different women?

- How many fell sick from drug and alcohol abuse ?

- How many who started businesses then still have the business running till date?

2015 is too far.
Ask around for the set of 2020.

If you are wise and have little education then you should be able to use data for basic statistics.

Better use your prime days to lay a foundation money can't buy. Lay a solid foundation for later because, you see the foundation phase? You can't escape it. You must do it.

And trust me you don't want to do it in your 30s. Suicide will be in your thoughts at least every week.

Now that you're strong, young , mentally better, and the earth is gracious to you, take advantage and give in your best to legitimate sustainable work.

[Joe s @JohnsonSule]

@JobFound5 Interested

[Slim @onu_slim]

In 2019, two NYSC corps members were posted to my company. They both resumed on the same day. One studied Biology Education, and the other studied Christian Religious Knowledge (CRK) or Religious Studies (I can’t remember). We assigned them to support the sales team, mainly to help with sending cold emails and DMs to market our tech product. They were not directly involved in building the product itself.

Even though the work looked simple from the outside, their attitudes quickly set them apart.

The corps member who studied Biology Education was calm, humble, and always ready to learn. He took the work seriously, showed up consistently, communicated well, and gradually developed an interest in understanding how the tech product actually worked. Even though tech was not his background, he kept asking questions and building himself quietly. His dedication made him reliable.

The corps member who studied CRK had a more arrogant approach. He often acted like the job was too small for him. Sometimes he even discouraged the other corps member, making it seem like the effort he was putting into growth was unnecessary. Instead of using the period to learn and gain skills, he depended on the confidence and connections he believed he already had.

Over time, the difference became clear.

The Biology Education graduate continued improving himself. His humility and willingness to learn opened doors for him inside the organisation. Gradually, he transitioned from sales support into proper tech work. Today, he is the Head of Tech in the company. He grew from the lowest intern-level support role into leadership simply because he embraced learning.

The CRK graduate still stays in touch with him. During their conversations, he often admits that he wishes he had taken learning seriously back then. He sometimes says he regrets not paying attention, because life after service did not meet his expectations. He is still living in his father’s house and trying to find his direction.

This experience is a reminder that it is not always about the role you start with, but the attitude you bring to it. Even a simple assignment like sending emails can become a stepping stone if you treat it with seriousness and use the opportunity to grow. Humility, consistency, and the willingness to learn will always create long-term advantage.

[PROFESSOR @SIGMAPROFESSOR]

One day you’ll understand that you don’t need anyone to lean on. You can walk away from anyone, and life won’t crumble - it moves on, often smoother, sometimes far better. It’s not loss that breaks you, it’s the fear of it. You were never here by anyone’s mercy, the same force that brought you this far will always carry you through. Don’t let anyone keep you weak.

[Joe s @JohnsonSule]

@Ucheflex1 @sidrachain The problem has been fixed, try it now.
I just claimed mine after 4 days.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

So this is what I would advise every young lady that is above 23, and in a serious relationship.

Stop being afraid of what your father would say or do.

Be very open about the man that you're dating, and tell him exactly where your confusion lies.

Listen to your father, far more than you'd listen to your mother.

If you're honest with your father about what he does for a living, his family upbringing and background, and how he treats you, your father will advise you correctly, & without any emotions or sentiments.

If your father is late, discuss with that brother or uncle that you know would not mince words with you.

Stop doing "I love him so much".

You know nothing about love, and you cannot, or should not love a man.

Many of you have lied to your fathers, & have taken the advise of your mothers, & regretted it in marriage.

Especially if the man is spending on you, & your mother sanctions it.

A man spending on you, is not equivalent to love.

You feeling excited because he's spending money on you, is not any sign that you love him.

Once you realise that your feelings is your greatest enemy, you'd restrain yourself from making regrettable mistakes.

Look out more, for a man that talks and invests more for his future and yours, and not the one that is spending his scarce resources on you, without any future or verifiable goals or legitimate and sustainable income.

There is a married woman in this community, she's always in my DMs complaining about her husband.

She lied to her father about her husband's source of livelihood.

He's a yahoo boy.

Now the husband abandons her at home, beats her, & goes to spend days and nights with his side chick.

She cannot go back to her father to open up. And she now has children with him.

You cannot find a perfect man.

And your father will tell you that, too.

But when you know very obvious red flags, or your inatinct is telling you that something is not right, please be open to your father.

While parents also go the extra miles to do some background vetting, there are personal things that only you would know.

Your father is not a magician.

Help him to help you.

End.

[Joe s @JohnsonSule]

@DavidUzoma36025 @musaHus54670772 I had the same experience today

[Joe s @JohnsonSule]

@kueBarinedam @musaHus54670772 I had the same experience today after submitting my score didn't show up, it automatically logged me out without showing my score.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

It's because a lot of men are fixated with marrying women as virgins, that is why the much older men go for young girls, with he hopes that they're virgins.

You're going for young teenage girls, because you want to catch them young, & because you feel that that toto is tighter, or that they are virgins.

You forget quickly that, being a virgin is not a key criteria for choosing a wife.

Even if it's a criteria for you, why not date her properly, remove money & dependency, & see if she'll genuinely be with an old man like you?

You know that it's mostly not possible don't you?

How then, do you think that, you're truly marrying the right wife for you?

A young girl that hasn't seen much in life, wants to enjoy her young age, & you want to come under the guise of marriage to tame her?

It'll mostly always backfire.

She'll fight you dirty, & see you as a wicked man.

By that time, she must have started seeing her mistakes, but every blame will be on you.

For those of you much younger men, especially below 25.

If you also wish to marry a woman that is a virgin, & you meet one, learn that you need time to grow with her, & both of you should enjoy your young ages.

If she's not greedy, has proper upbringing and her mother or family are not greedy, it'll work for both of you.

She'll resist the "goodies" that much older men want to use to entice her, & be patient for you.

If you deflower her during the relationship, good for both of you.

And if you marry her, you still married your wife as a virgin.

There is literally no difference between a young woman's vagina and a much older woman's vagina.

So you do not define a true woman by her vagina. Even if she's a virgin.

Infact, a woman's true character, femininity & maturity, starts to manifest after she has had sex.

She either begins to see it as an opportunity to be loose & shameless, or an opportunity to learn how to be a good wife and a mother.

You cannot give a woman money that will satisfy her wants. And you should not do that either.

So, you much older men always thinking that once you have money, every woman is at your beck and call, should be careful.

Otherwise, that money that you used to lure her or win her over, will be your greatest undoing.

You'll breed an extremely entitled woman. And if her family depends on her for survival through you, you'll breed an entitled & ungrateful family.

Above all, let me repeat the words that I have always said.

Be careful with marrying into a family where a true father figure is absent.

If the man is no more, ask proper questions & vet how the children speak about their late father.

Study the dynamics in her home, & see who calls the shot. If it's her mother, it could be a potential red flag.

Before you choose your wife, choose her mother.

And once you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.

End.

[Joe s @JohnsonSule]

@brainjotter__ @grok 😂

[Joe s @JohnsonSule]

@RealChiefPriest @grok 😂

[Depegan of Lagos 🇳🇬🇺🇸 @Mautiin01]

This pastor might be gathering up some enemies for himself already.

He speaks only facts 💯🚶🏿‍♂️

[Machiavelli Bot @UnmodernmanBot]

The most dangerous man isn’t aggressive, he’s unbothered. He doesn’t argue, explain, or perform. His indifference isn’t a lack of care, it’s a signal that he doesn’t need control to feel powerful. That stillness is terrifying to those who crave validation.