Not I, but Christ be honored, loved, exalted,
Not I, but Christ be seen, be known and heard;
Not I, but Christ in every look and action,
Not I, but Christ in every thought and word.
Let's talk about FORGIVENESS.
I've come to realize that it takes the Holy Spirit to TRULY FORGIVE and when we surrender our "pain/hurt" to Him, He starts to change the way we feel towards the person/situation
We can say we've forgiven someone but when their thoughts...
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I can’t imagine the world without men in it. I can’t even imagine my life without a man in it. Men are unique creatures.
There is something about a man’s masculine traits that can never be matched with the feminine traits.
Women weren’t created to do everything a man can do. Women were created to do everything a man can’t do.
It’s just sad to see that men aren’t appreciated enough. I love and appreciate all the men in my life.
Yes, I said give love a chance.
Marry.
Introduce people.
Most of us will start looking for people who are great at this, great at that and more, to love.
Everyone loves a good thing, everyone wants to settle with a person who is great.
But have you checked their weaknesses and can you still love them with those weaknesses ?
Don’t base your choice solely on the good sides of a person, include those sides that aren’t so good too.
He can’t dress well, will you still go out with them and still proudly introduce them to your friends as your partner ?
You that has always been so fly, the babe you met at the conference, who spoke fire and you got talking and you know she’ll make a great wife, can’t dress like you, she dresses like an old woman,
Yes, you two will work on it, but the day she comes out dressed like an old woman, will you still proudly say, meet my beautiful wife ? Or she’ll no longer be beautiful in your eyes ?
He Has every other thing, but speaks poor English, you know how Nigerians take spoken English.
If you text my wife or husband, na evening e go reply, will you no longer love them ?
She can finish 8 amala, the day she eats 8 outside, will you still be able to say, meet my lovely wife ?
He chews like a pig, the day he chews like that in public, will you still be able to hold his hand and say, my husband ?
I know people who say “we’ll work on it when we marry”, and till today, with all the money, they still choose to dress like an old person.
What is that weakness you’ve spotted ?
If you’ve not spotted anyone, ask the Holy Spirit to help you see it, if they don’t tell you or display it.
Many of you only say,
He’s handsome, God fearing, kind, hardworking, loving, caring, and he cooks very well ✋, has a great body, dresses well, owns this and that, but you cannot spot one, just one weakness of theirs.
That’s why you see, just from the first month, you’re ready for divorce and you start managing small small, till at most your divorce comes after 3 years, and people will say, you even try, XandY’s own was even 1yr plus.
Choosing a life partner isn't just about finding someone with perfect qualities; it's also about understanding and embracing their weaknesses. True love means accepting flaws, showing empathy, and growing together through challenges. A strong relationship is built on mutual support, where both partners can be their authentic selves, imperfections and all. Remember, perfection is an illusion; it's the imperfections that make love real and enjoyable.
You’ll not have to divorce, you’ll marry well.
You’ll make a great choice and be a great choice.
Amen.