BEING A TOP ON GRINDR FEELS LIKE A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT UNIVERSE. 😭
Before my last relationship, I was almost exclusively a bottom. Somehow, the dynamic completely flipped, and I ended up becoming basically exclusively a top.
We recently broke up, so this is my first time being single and back on Grindr as a top and holy shit, it’s SO different. 😂
I genuinely wasn’t prepared for how much more attention I’d get. Masc guys, muscular guys, really attractive guys… including some I honestly would’ve considered way out of my league before. Guys I probably wouldn’t have even messaged when I was using Grindr as a bottom are now messaging me first.
And there are SO many attractive bottoms with great bodies. I’m really into a nice body, and I’ve somehow become ridiculously selective because there are constantly more options. I’ll catch myself rejecting guys that, a few years ago, I would’ve thought were insanely hot. 😭
I knew tops were in demand, but I genuinely had no idea it was like THIS.
Not gonna lie… being a top is very fun. 😂
For the tops here: did you experience the same thing when you switched roles? 👀