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My dad picked me up from the South Dakota State Chess Championship when I was 13.
I tossed my trophy in the back and crawled into the passenger seat.
He asked: āHowād you do?ā
Me: āI won.ā
The words he said next have followed me for the past 26 years.
He said:
āGood⦠you were supposed to.ā
I struggled beneath the weight of those words for many years.
Struggled beneath the expectation that excellence was the standard, not the exception.
I thought it meant I had to be the best at everything I did.
And so that became the metric against which I measured my worth.
Which in itself became a sort of unwinnable gameā¦
Unwinnable because If youāre expected to winā¦then what real pride can you take in the victory?
Then again, if you lose⦠well⦠What the hell?
Tony Robbins said:
āSuccess without fulfillment is the ultimate failure.ā
I lived that truth for yearsā¦
I tried desperately to use my achievements over others to fill that hole I felt inside of me.
That feeling of never being enough.
It took many years, many conversations with my Dad, and a whole lot of introspection to realize Iād made a mistakeā¦
Iād misinterpreted my Dadās questionā¦
See, when he asked:
āHow did you do?ā
He wasnāt asking about the result⦠he could see the trophy in the backseat, afterall.
He was asking about me and my performance.
My input, not the output.
Did I play as well as I could⦠or did I just get by.
I think a lot about this quote from Star Trek:
āYou can do everything right and still lose. Thatās not weakness, thatās life.ā
The reverse is also true.
You can do everything wrong and still win. Thatās not strength, thatās luck.
And the truth is, I got lucky that year at State.
I didnāt play up to my ability.
In the championship round I blundered badly and shouldāve lost.
Thatās just lifeā¦
But hereās the lesson Iāve taken away from all this:
(and truly, itās changed my life)
You donāt get to choose what happens to you in this lifeā¦
But you DO get to choose what those things mean.
For me, hereās how Iāve chosen to interpret that conversation with my dad all those years ago:
Itās not about being the best, itās about doing your best.
And I think in the grand scheme of thingsā¦
If you can show up everyday andā¦
Just do your bestā¦
Everythingās gonna work out just fine.
Good morning, dear friends and followers! It's Monday, so let's make each moment count and create unforgettable memories! Cape Cod sunrise! Nauset beach, Orleans, Massachusetts.
07.28.2023
SPAC
Saratoga Performing Arts Center
Set 1:
Same As It Ever Was
Thorns Of Life
Painted Silver Light
Devil Likes It Slow %
Mule
Dreaming Out Loud
Thorazine Shuffle
Set 2 (With Jackie Greene on Keys, Guitar, Vocals):
Shine On You Crazy Diamond (Parts I-V) @%
Have A Cigar &%
Speak To Me
Breathe @
On The Run
Time > Breathe reprise @
The Great Gig In The Sky @
Money @%
One Of These Days
Fearless
Echoes (Part 1) @
> Echoes (Part 2) @%
Comfortably Numb @
Encore 1:
Shine On You Crazy Diamond (Parts VI-XII) %
Encore 2:
Wish You Were Here @
% w/ Ron Holloway
@ w/ Machan Taylor & Sophia Ramos
& Matt Abts - lead vocal
š·: David Sullenger
Just when I thought Iāve seen it all, todayās beach sunrise swoops in like, āhold my coffee!ā š āš
Nauset beach, Cape Cod. #sunrise#ocean#beach
Imagine how dumb you have to be - you steal state secrets - stuff them in some hefty bags - stash em in the pool cabana room - & the feds show up - & ASK - can u give all this stuff back ?
The idiot lies - twice - then gets caught on his own fucking camera - with his fat face and grubby paws in the hefty bag still trying to figure out what he can sell to the Saudis ?
How dumb? Seriously
By request, here is the multicam view of the feed from Times Square, All-22, and ESPN, Georgia, and Ohio State radio calls, as it happened onscreen live: