I don't mind sitting close to people at a coffee shop. Let's create public space. Totally fine, even if there were other options.
BUT. If you know that you are going to be making a phone call while sitting RIGHT NEXT TO ME, maybe choose a seat not so close to someone? haha.
@matttebbe More immediately: 5-10 minutes outside with deep breaths. Phone is left inside. Whatever weather, even if it is just standing on the porch. Usually, a lap or 4 around our block, depending on how long it takes to break my circular thoughts.
"When a Quaker had been publicly proclaiming his pursuit of pacifism, someone remarked: 'Well, stranger, if all the world was of your mind I would turn and follow after.' 1/2
The more I sit with friends & neighbors who identify as atheist, the more it is evident that they rarely need an expert in apologetics, but a pastor that listens, compassionately digs below the surface, is fully present, & has a ruthless focus on the way of Jesus above all else.
....witnesses without being manipulative. For Christian leadership to be truly fruitful in the future, a movement from the moral to the mystical is required." -@HenriNouwen In the Name of Jesus - 1989
"But when we are securely rooted in personal intimacy with the source of life, it will be possible to remain flexible without being relativistic, convinced without being rigid, willing for confront without being offensive, gentle and forgiving without being soft, and....
“Church planters, we need you. We need your sacred work, and we need your soul to stay rooted in the life of Christ. So may the peace and power of Christ be at WORK IN you today, so that the peace and power of Christ may WORK THROUGH you for years to come.”https://t.co/E95OIDpRZE
One of the most important practices for living missionally: to be a coworker/neighbor/friend with needs myself. Being willing to have needs communicates I'd like to do this life WITH you, not in spite of or for you.
Any billionaires want to partner with me to start a new internet service company? We will have the market in months by simply giving a clear and consistent price from first call to installation. #whyisitsohard