Mr. President, let’s set politics aside. My husband earned all his accolades after a lifetime of service. I’m preparing for the first holiday season without the man I love. You brought me down in a way you can never imagine and your hurtful words just made my healing much harder.
At the age of 40 you should be in savings mode, in investing mode, and getting out of debt mode. Don't buy a car every 3 or 4 years. Keep your car for at least 10 years. And if you do buy a car, buy used rather than new so that you can put your money to work for you!