she also had an account based in Canada so i thought it was real.
luckily the guy being the account (or i think its a girl) doesnt have the creativity or know how much someone like her would be worth so it was all mostly small sends... (<1k total).
but its not abt the money.
i just found @bnkrupt4brianna is a scammer!!!!
WTFFFFf. now the signs are crystal clear ... i feel SO stupid for falling for this shit.... like even after doing findom for 15 fucking years...
she has a lot of real dommes following her and pics giving theπ& assumed she was real
F|nd0m on X feels like dating a narcissist.
You give it attention all day, every day.
The second you stop texting back, it punishes you by destroying your impressions.
The amount of visibility maintenance required on this platform is honestly insane.
the amount of outright scams here posing as 'bratty' findom is SO frustrating.
if you cant be professional just dont do findom. being bratty and being unprofessional are very different things
Money advice for girls in their 20s (in the US)
Setup a retirement fund for yourself ASAP. I have a Roth IRA I started at 20 and a SEP IRA I opened when I started making more money. Time is on your side when youβre young; the sooner you get started the better
If youβre self employed insure enough of your income that if you are unable to work due to sickness or injury your bills will be covered
Set automatic monthly contributions into your investments accounts. When I was broke I only contributed $100 a month but it compounded over time.
Set yourself up with a health insurance that allows you to get a health savings account. This money is pretax money- max it every year and try not to touch it unless absolutely necessary. This will grow around 5% yearly, similar to a HYSA but can only be used for health related expenses. I keep this for emergencies/ a backup retirement account
Build up an emergency fund with 3-6 months of bills and keep it in a HYSA.
If self employed put aside 30% of your income for taxes, also keep this in a HYSA.
Do not keep your tax money/emergency fund in investment accounts.
Once you build up these essential accounts only then would I start investing in the stock market/index funds. This type of investing can be very profitable but you could also lose everything in these types of accounts, it truly is a gamble.
ignore 'fetish' is one of the worst....
keep seeing her online begging for and bragging about $50 sends
and she keeps ignoring me sending hundreds
apparently she thought men thought ignoring was hot and would make them pay more.
seriously... wtf.
I used to have a man who wanted to split a small grocery bill with me because he didnβt think it was fair not to. Now I have men who worship the ground I walk on and willingly hand me their credit cards to put on file at Michelin star hotels.
So yeah, this is your sign to leave that bum ass man.