hii, I’m cheska! looking for interactive moots, esp #netjj fans! ><💗
✿ 18 | she/her
✿ filo/eng
✿ netjj main + loves all dmd ships/actors!
✿ not new to #bltwt
✿ any fandoms are welcome!
help ↻ / ♡ to spread! let’s be moots!! >ᴗ<🩷
⋮ ⌗ ┆#thaibl#เน็ตเจเจ
hi guyzz, I do appreciate the interaction with aloot of somtim, happinet and other people in bl world! I will try to follow y’all when I can na kha! ~💗
hii, I’m cheska! looking for interactive moots, esp #netjj fans! ><💗
✿ 18 | she/her
✿ filo/eng
✿ netjj main + loves all dmd ships/actors!
✿ not new to #bltwt
✿ any fandoms are welcome!
help ↻ / ♡ to spread! let’s be moots!! >ᴗ<🩷
⋮ ⌗ ┆#thaibl#เน็ตเจเจ
เล่าให้ฟังหน่อยได้ไหมครับ อะไรที่ทำให้ทุกคนมาเริ่มติดตามเน็ตเจเจแล้วอะไรที่ทำให้ทุกคนเอ็นดูพวกเราจนถึงทุกวันนี้ 🥹🖤
Tell me your story — what made you start supporting NetJJ, and what has made you continue to love and support us all the way until today?
I’d really love to hear from you and read every comment. 🥹🖤
#สวัสดีเน็ตเจเจ
@thv_dope thank you for giving us your own thoughts about the story kaa🥹 I already feel that bear isn’t a type of husband/partner that is fully workaholic—just bcs he doesn’t love cho that much. that’s why a proper boundaries and mutual decisions in relationship. even cho is wrong too.🥲
Just finished reading the novel and
When you analyze Bear and Cho’s dynamic, it’s not that they don't love each other it’s that their way of expressing that love creates a painful — 🔥
Like Bear often falls into the trap of believing that the most profound way to say "I love you" is to secure the future. By burying himself in work, he feels he is building a fortress around their relationship but in the process, he accidentally locks his partner out.
While Cho Simply needs the presence. For Cho, security isn't found in grand gestures or long-term stability; it's found in the "here and now"—the eye contact, the undivided attention, and the feeling of being prioritized.
The tragedy is that both are trying to protect the relationship, just using completely opposite tools to do it.
That's why COMMUNICATION IS NEEDED IN RELATIONSHIP!!!
This happens because each assumes the other sees the world through their own lens. Bear likely thinks, "I'm doing this for us," and gets frustrated that his sacrifices aren't being seen while Cho thinks, "If he loved me, he would choose me over the work," and feels invisible.
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hellooo! not a bl related, but to those who wanted an art commission for some upcoming events—even in bl world, please feel free to dm me here in my main! ^^