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@concretesweets@piippaaray a lot of people gaf for a reason i have never and will never understand lmao they think lesbianism is some kinda mold you gotta fill perfectly
@Lilli_2324@piippaaray if a cis man genuinely truly wholeheartedly identified as a lesbian bc of personal connection to lesbianism, gender, femininity, and sapphicness then sure a cis man could call himself a lesbian. but that doesn't happen, people are only ever talking about tboy lesbians
the refusal to distinguish masculinity from manhood has done irreparable damage to lesbian communities.
butches, studs, transmascs, and gender-nonconforming lesbians have spent generations insisting that masculinity does not belong to men.
we're still having to say it.