I done stroked this mans ego & his dick so much he thinking I can’t do better.
Baby I CHOSE you. Don’t ever confuse being chosen with being the only option. Act like you know wassup!
Girl, all ima say to you is... 6 months from now needs to look illegal. Body tea, funds overflowing, skin glowing, circle upgraded, strict program, trips booked, planner full, peace protected, & favor so loud it intimidates.✨
You can do something for someone so many times that they stop seeing it as something you do for them and start seeing it as something you’re supposed to do.
That’s when appreciation disappears.
Full transparency... I don't think l've ever experienced someone being deeply in love with me. I've been liked. I've been wanted. But I still dream about the kind of love where someone chooses me wholeheartedly every single day.
I truly wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A cooking wife. A loving wife. A peaceful wife. A secure wife. A comfortable and safe wife. to a honorable, ambitious, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, fun, spontaneous God fearing husband.
a girl on tiktok said “healing is so hard because it is a constant battle between your inner child who is scared and just wants safety.... your inner teenager who is angry and just wants justice.... and your current self-who is tired and just wants peace." and it hits me hard.
My male friend at work told me, “Women say they want equality, but they still expect men to pay for dates” I asked him, “Would you split everything 50 50?” He said, “Absolutely” I asked, “Including pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, and the physical recovery afterward?” He said, “Obviously those are different” I said, “Exactly, So maybe equality was never supposed to mean pretending men and women experience everything equally. Maybe it means both people contribute fairly instead of picking whichever traditional rules benefit them” He stared at me and said, “I never thought about it like that” I said, “That's the problem with selective tradition”
this man on tiktok said “youcannot repair a relationship with a man who believes the problem is always your reaction, never his behavior” and that’s real shit.