josteinoe

Co-founder of Doing Good, creator of a video course about life design.

Interested in tech, philosophy, health and music

[SightBringer @_The_Prophet__]

⚡️The von der Leyen quote is one of the most revealing things a European leader has said in the last decade and almost nobody is going to process it correctly.

“The cheapest energy is the one you don’t use.”

That is a sentence spoken by a person presiding over civilizational decline who has decided to reframe the decline as virtue. It’s not a policy statement. It’s a theological position. The energy crisis isn’t a problem to be solved by producing more energy. It’s an opportunity for Europeans to need less. To want less. To consume less. To live smaller lives in smaller apartments heated to lower temperatures with less travel and less activity and less economic output. The scarcity isn’t a failure. It’s the goal.

This is the thing Americans and everyone outside of Europe cannot fully grasp about where European elite thinking has landed. They genuinely believe that reducing European energy consumption is morally good regardless of the economic consequences, because European consumption is tied to European environmental guilt which is tied to European colonial guilt which is tied to a broader belief that European civilization has been net negative for the world and should shrink. The energy crisis gives them political cover to implement policies that would otherwise be unpopular. Now they can say circumstances force the reduction when the reduction was always the plan.

Von der Leyen is not an aberration. She represents the consensus view among the European political class. Macron believes this. Scholz believes this. The entire EU Commission believes this. They don’t say it this directly usually because it polls badly, but every major policy they implement is consistent with this worldview. Degrowth is not a fringe academic position in European politics. It’s the operating framework at the top.

The American version of this framing would be “the cheapest energy is the one we produce ourselves at scale.” That’s what actually reduces cost and increases resilience. Building more nuclear, extracting more gas, expanding the grid, investing in new production. The European version is the opposite. Don’t build anything. Don’t extract anything. Don’t produce anything. Just use less. And when citizens can’t heat their homes or fly for work, frame it as virtue.

This is why Europe can’t recover from the current trajectory. The recovery would require a complete reversal of the ideological framework that produced the decline, and that framework is held most strongly by exactly the people who have the power to change it.

They’re not going to reverse it because they don’t see the trajectory as a problem.

They see it as necessary and good.

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

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[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Your brain tricks you into overbooking your calendar via hyperbolic discounting.

You undervalue the future "pain" of a commitment because the social reward of agreeing to it is immediate. Never say "yes" in the moment.

Implement a mandatory delay to let the dopamine fade and the true cost of the commitment sink in. Rather say: “Let me get back to you on that”.

It’s the only way to take control of your own journey.

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

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[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Your brain is fighting a constant battle between two opposing needs: the craving for certainty and the demand for variety.

It is a hard balance to strike. Too much routine creates boredom, while too much excitement creates anxiety and/or exhaustion. Most people struggle to thrive at these extremes; we need to find a place somewhere in the middle.

Where on this continuum do you sit right now? As you look back on the last month, ask yourself: Are you happy with your current balance, or is it time for a change?

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

A fulfilling day is less about checking off boxes and more about doing meaningful things with deep presence.

Similarly, I believe a fulfilling life is less about longevity and quantity of experiences, and more about having lived deeply.

In essence: Quality and depth over quantity and duration.

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Want to learn how to conduct life weekends?

For fifteen years, my friends and I have been on a mission: to find the best ways to design our lives and spend our time with purpose. We’ve read every book and article we could get our hands on and tested every tool we could find. We’ve distilled everything we learned into this video course: https://t.co/b4YcML8sAI

More than 270 students have already taken the course and given it an average of 4.7 out of 5 in rating.

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Stop trying to "find yourself" in isolation.

You cannot see your own systematic errors because your brain is wired to protect your illusions, not reveal them.

Replace solo journaling with a quarterly "Life Weekend" where trusted friends audit your goals and challenge your trajectory.

True clarity only comes from the outside in.

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Want to learn more about how to shape your life? For fifteen years, my friends and I have been on a mission: to find the best ways to design our lives and spend our time with purpose. We’ve read every book and article we could get our hands on and tested every tool we could find. We’ve distilled everything we learned into this video course: https://t.co/b4YcML8sAI

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Stop visualizing only success to build motivation; it often leads to complacency rather than action.

True leverage requires pain: your nervous system needs to feel the crushing cost of inaction to make change a necessity, not just a preference.

Use the "Dickens Process": vividly visualize the compounding regret of your current path 20 years out, then shift to the pleasure of the new behavior.

It transforms change from a "should" into an absolute "must."

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Want to learn how to strike a good balance between planning and doing? For fifteen years, my friends and I have been on a mission: to find the best ways to design our lives and spend our time with purpose. We’ve read every book and article we could get our hands on and tested every tool we could find. We’ve distilled everything we learned into this video course: https://t.co/b4YcML8sAI

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

"Headless doing" gets you lost, but "endless planning" keeps you parked.

You need a map to start, but you can only steer the car once you are moving and receiving feedback from reality.

Set your direction quarterly, then ruthlessly execute your weekly 'Big Rocks' without questioning the plan until the next review. This separates the dreamers from the achievers.

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Want to learn how to build this top-down connection? For fifteen years, my friends and I have been on a mission: to find the best ways to design our lives and spend our time with purpose. We’ve read every book and article we could get our hands on and tested every tool we could find. We’ve distilled everything we learned into this video course: https://t.co/b4YcML8sAI

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

You don’t hate your to-do list because it’s hard; you hate it because it feels disconnected.

When you link a mundane task (like a short run) to a deep desire (a long, healthy life), effort transforms into pleasure. You aren't just ticking a box; you're realizing your desired future.

Establish a top-down connection from your "North Star" to your daily plan before executing. It turns the daily grind into undeniable, satisfying progress.

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Want to dive deeper? For fifteen years, my friends and I have been on a mission: to find the best ways to design our lives and spend our time with purpose. We’ve read every book and article we could get our hands on and tested every tool we could find. We’ve distilled everything we learned into this video course: https://t.co/b4YcML8sAI

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

How you spend your time today makes all the difference.

Your life can be viewed as a collection of pictures, built entirely by how you color the single square of "today".

Implement a daily system to align how you spend your time with your dreams.

Master the pixel, and you guarantee the masterpiece.

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Want to dive deeper? For fifteen years, my friends and I have been on a mission: to find the best ways to design our lives and spend our time with purpose. We’ve read every book and article we could get our hands on and tested every tool we could find. We’ve distilled everything we learned into this video course: https://t.co/b4YcML90qg

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Your ambitious goals are often the very thing preventing your progress.

Motivation is an equation of perceived value vs. perceived cost; if the perceived difficulty is too high, your brain will default to inaction regardless of the reward.

Break your project down into a task so simple, like running for just 5 minutes, that the cost of starting becomes zero.

Simplicity is the only way to consistently beat your own resistance.

[Joachim H. Andersen @JoaAndersenX]

Include squats in your workout routine

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Want to learn a good system? For fifteen years, my friends and I have been on a mission: to find the best ways to design our lives and spend our time with purpose. We’ve read every book and article we could get our hands on and tested every tool we could find. We’ve distilled everything we learned into this video course: https://t.co/b4YcML8sAI

[josteinoe @josteinoe]

Your perfectly motivated and rationalized goal is worthless if you do not translate it into action.

You can find yourself as inspired as you have ever been about achieving something, but that doesn’t matter.

Why? Because your brain isn't a vault that safeguards priorities; it's a sieve that lets clarity fade as "life happens." Get into a hectic work phase, and that new goal suddenly seems less important than your deadline.

You don't need more motivation. You need an external system to remind you of what's important as you plan your week and your day.