If we date, donβt stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
Itβs cuz men remember da best thing about you and women remember da worst thing about you. You be like damn she did stab me but she could cook like a mf. Women brain can erase 100 good things from 1 bad thing you did.
Women only care about these things as long as you are on good terms.
When the situation changes, she will look you in the eye and tell the world that you never did anything for her and that she was the one mothering you.