If you talk to her every single day and every single night, she’s probably going to get attached to you. She’s going to start looking forward to your messages, getting used to your presence and eventually catching feelings, even if she never planned to. That’s what happens when you consistently give someone your time, attention, comfort and affection. So before you get close to her, ask yourself whether you’re actually prepared to stay. Because if you already know you’re going to disappear the moment things get complicated, don’t create a connection you have no intention of handling responsibly. She may have started talking to you with no expectations, but after weeks or months of talking every day, you become part of her routine. And when you suddenly leave, you’re not just disappearing, you’re leaving someone to unlearn your presence. So if you know you can’t be consistent, don’t make yourself someone’s everyday person. She’s already had to watch too many people come close, make her feel safe and then leave.
“I like the sound of your voice” “your voice sounds nice” “I love hearing you laugh” “you have a cute laugh” I’ll makeout with you right now don’t even