Marry a partner that still reaches out after the argument, no matter how tense things became. The one that puts their ego aside just to reassure you that walking away was never an option for them. That isn't weakness, that's emotional strength. That's a person choosing connection over control, peace over pride. It's a person showing you, in real time, that commitment isn't about never arguing but about never abandoning. Not just apologizing but it’s proving that loving you is a lifetime decision, not a temporary feeling.
One thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is people who refuse to understand cause and effect. Your actions produced this outcome. Why are you shocked by the consequences of something you deliberately set in motion, then standing there playing victim?
Neverrrrrrrr, EVERrrrrrrrrrr underestimate what God can do in the next 24 HOURS. A door can open. A situation can change. A prayer can be answered. Something impossible can happen. A miracle can happen .You genuinelyyyyy don't know what God can change before this time tomorrow. KEEP TRUSTINGGGGG.
We’ve lost the art of fighting for friendships, relationships, or simply people worth fighting for. Everyone seems to be wearing their ego on their sleeves.
People lost empathy for one another! It’s sickening! Someone isn’t even buried yet and you’re announcing another person as a King!! People are grieving and mourning and all you care about is tweeting about who should be King!! Such an unfair world with sick souls!! King Oyo battled cancer and you can’t even take a few days to sympathize with his loved ones!! Smh
as someone who likes to talk things out, i’m slowly learning that not every feeling requires a conversation. sometimes you just have to sit with it, let it pass and move on.
people aren’t perfect and neither am i. grace is necessary.
I broke up with my boyfriend because he didn't post me on my birthday. When I confronted him, he sent me a screenshot as proof that he had posted me on his status. That's when I discovered he has been hiding his statuses from me all along. He just forgot to unhide me on my birthday.
Miss Uganda styled with the layers cut trug during c/section... I loveeet so much...
this is more than beautiful... 🔥🔥🔥... let me celebrate every fashion surgeon out there...
You can be at peace and living your best life then the person that almost ended you messages you “hey big head”…now you have to look for the therapist’s number again yet you had deleted it
Take cntrl of your destiny
Do it all, take the risk. What's the worst that could happen? A lil rejection? Move on to the next
As long as your value proposition makes sense & you can consistently deliver on it w the support you seek, you'll be surprised what could break for ya
Dear career woman, please, when it is time to make a lifetime commitment, do not marry down.
If you want to enjoy both your career and your marriage, be careful about marrying a man you are significantly ahead of academically and financially.
As time goes on your career will grow. Your income will grow. Your exposure and responsibilities will grow. If your husband is unable to grow with you, that gap will eventually become a source of conflict in the marriage.
Do not make the mistake of thinking love alone will close that gap. You may live to regret it.
Choose a man whose ambition, capacity and mindset is greater than yours so you can always look up to him.
If you so desire to be an exception, then good luck to you.