Joy Chidinma

An amazing passionate Baker & Cake Decorator.
♍Virgo & Lovely😚
IG:@jaybels.cake.world
Location: Owerri, Imo.
For cake enquiries, pls call 09016030703/send a DM

[Joy Chidinma @JoyChidii]

Your fav girl💋💞

[Master Togan @Getinwithgame]

When there’s genuine attraction, emotional tension, a strong masculine-feminine polarity, sex becomes much deeper, more intense, and addictive. That connection turns good sex into mind-blowing, soul-level sex.

You feel it in the way she:

[The married man @marriedmn]

Marriage has six stages,

But most couples give up at stage three.

The ones that pass stage three remain strong forever.

Stage 1: The Honeymoon Stage....

[Joy Chidinma @JoyChidii]

@jon_d_doe @Alex_brown2 Happy Birthday Alex brown... More years in goodhealth..

[Emma ik Umeh (Tcee )🇳🇬 @emmaikumeh]

Pls, plan your life. This video touched me so much

[Alpha Maker 🦍 @AlphaMakerr]

Men, what's that one piece of advice you'd keep telling your daughter so as not to end up being a h0e?

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

"If she's stressing you, dump her"

The problem with this advice is that all women will stress you at some point.

There's no exception to this.

I say this because this kind of advice often push men to dump good, feminine women who raved at some point.

The thing is, the masculine & the feminine don't think the same way & thus won't act the same way.

You shouldn't be too wishful as to think your woman will act like your fellow men. She won't. She will act like a woman—stubborn, rebellious, chaotic etc.

Put simply, she'll always bring drama to your relationship. And you shouldn't resent her for this. It's in her nature. You don't hate a bird for flying.

However a distinction must be made between the stress that comes from a woman who's merely being dramatic & that which comes from a woman who's damaged.

Always remember:

"All women, by nature, are dramatic but not all women are damaged"

If she's feminine, submissive, from a stable family & has low body count & doesn't cheat on you, she's bound to stress you at some point & that's her being dramatic. So dumping her won't be a wise move.

On the contrary, if she's cheats on you, always recalcitrant, comes from an unstable family, has a high body count, feminist-minded, then she's damaged & compromised.

And you're encouraged to do away with her.

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

Men are not born; they are made.

You have to go through pain, adversity, discipline to become a man.

Behind every successful man is his sweat, his tears, his pain, his failures, & above all else, his determination to succeed.

So if you're going through tough times now, keep it moving!

[Bambulu @Bqmbulu]

The only way your relationship with her could survive is

"If She Looks Up To You"

• She must look up to you in finance

• She must look up to you for advice (knowledge & wisdom)

• She must look up to you for pleasure

If these three criteria are not satisfied, she'll have a harder time submitting to you.

That's why you must constantly invest in yourself as a man. Don't get too relaxed in your relationship.

Seek knowledge!

Work on your finances!

Hit the gym. Work on your body!

Become a better version of yourself every day.

For that's only when she can sit up & become the better version of herself too.

If you're complacent, she'll be same too.

Don't forget your woman is your follower. As such, what you project will rub off on her.

One of the reasons modern day marriages don't last is because men don't get this concept well.

They fall in love & fall into complacency.

Why do I put the blame on men alone?

It's simple:

Men are leaders & must always be the measure of all things.

This is why I put the blame for the social ills we suffer today on men—weak men to be precise:

"The real pandemic is the lack of masculine men"

In conclusion, men must realize that the love & respect of a woman, especially in a union, is a series of battles that must be constantly won, if we don't intend to lose the war which is a lasting union.

[Joy Chidinma @JoyChidii]

@okorolambert Seen. There's power in spoken words.

[Joy Chidinma @JoyChidii]

@crazybroda @Dan_is_Rey_ @Omah_sila Lol

[Joy Chidinma @JoyChidii]

@Dan_is_Rey_ @crazybroda @Omah_sila I love that last line. 💯 true

[Joy Chidinma @JoyChidii]

@_Gabri3llaa @Omah_sila The sad truth. Even tho we don't pray or wish for so. But it's now like a default setting. It takes serious discipline for a man not to cheat tbvh.

[Joy Chidinma @JoyChidii]

@Emeka_04 @Omah_sila Another angle! Lol

[Joy Chidinma @JoyChidii]

@Dan_is_Rey_ @crazybroda @Omah_sila This is just it. This is the comment I was looking for. The diversity, the difference, the varieties. Coz even the man sef might get tired of it bcoz it's same all the time. And infact, there's no rule to these things as individuals differ.

[SportsDokita (Odogwu ☝️) @Sports_Doctor2]

“HILDA ‘BACI’ BASSEY”
(A Shot At The Guinness World Record)

A 27year old Nigerian, Hilda Bassey popularly known as “Hilda Baci” is looking to break the Guinness World Record for the longest cooking marathon by an individual.

The current record stands at 87 hours, 45 minutes and 00 seconds set by an Indian Chef, Chef Lata Tandon.

- How did it start?
- How does she intend to achieve it?
- What was her preparation like?
- What Are The Rules Of This Challenge?
- How will it be assessed?
- Fun-fact about Hilda Baci

#OdogwuTales

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

In a relationship, especially when it has taken sometime.

You don't DEMAND for anything, you EARN it.

You only demand, when you feel you're being taken for granted.

And if you see yourself demanding all the time, when you're convinced you've earned it, walk away.

End.

[Joy Chidinma @JoyChidii]

Happy Sunday fam💞

[Joy Chidinma @JoyChidii]

@jon_d_doe As na Gen Z Agba talk, make we wey no be GenZ dey watch, dey do "wow wow" for other babes pishures..😄

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

It's because some women want better or more comfortable lives, that's why they enable their husbands in their laziness.

I'll restrict this thread to men living in Africa, because we have our own ways of doing things & our system supports patriarchy & the need to be the provider.

[Talk2veee @talk2veee]

Men: I can’t be with a non virgin woman and not have sex. She will be getting it elsewhere

Woman: *finally agrees to sleep with him (adds to her existing body count of from previous r/ship)*

Men: *breaks up* and moves to the next woman