Gary Milne Harper

Retired from 25 years of teaching and supporting people to escape the drama triangle of conflict and address conflict collaboratively.

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

@htsumura Your website is a great resource. Anywhere to get the game stats from the AAAA tourney?

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

Managing Emotions at the Holidays : Ki Moments Blog: https://t.co/9sDR2M8xOV

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

9 holiday conflict survival tips from a mediator https://t.co/mOExZV4c5k via @tammylenski

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

A meaningful apology includes emotional recognition. https://t.co/vkX2HQLBYl via @valueconfict

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

Excellent summary of Bernie Mayer's analysis of conflict avoidance. https://t.co/03fVFL7zmv via @madmimi

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

@mode138 for sure - just barreling through those uncontrolled intersections

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

An enemy is a person whose story we have not heard. – Gene Knudsen Hoffman

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

Like one "retweet" - [happy feet dance] https://t.co/vvUVFeLZrj

[Karen Dawson @karenedawson]

If you've accomplished even one little thing today that needed to be done, treat yourself to a discreet victory dance.

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

Never assume that you have no power when you are lower in a hierarchy. http://t.co/Mb6PjOxy30 via @valueconfict

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

@_amandamckenzie Check out http://t.co/QDBAoz64r3 - I think you would enjoy JIBC coures and benefit. And thanks for your energy today. Gary

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

@_amandamckenzie Hi Amanda. I'm sorry we didn't get to finish our conversation after the class. Given the conflicts you need to address (2)

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

The Guest House: Managing Emotions with Awareness : Ki Moments Blog: http://t.co/pYXKQbDpHv

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

Exploration of alternatives to mediation helps parties face the situation squarely and deeply. http://t.co/7wXWaItdeM via @valueconfict

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

12 Ways Successful People Handle Toxic People http://t.co/ON23r7zKUu via @Entrepreneur

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

Great article by Joeseph Grenby (Difficult Conversations) on resolving conflict through email. https://t.co/LVLYi96yEp

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

Difficult Conversations: Getting Started : Ki Moments Blog: http://t.co/5K9LTmvK6R #leadwithyourintent

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

@SarahWatson42 Your skating rocked tonight. (And the writing wasn't too shabby, either!)

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

Between stimulus and response is the freedom to choose. (Viktor Frankl)

[Gary Milne Harper @joyofconflict]

Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak. Courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen. (Winston Churchill)