Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through & that is a habit I need to let go of expeditiously
You HAVE to enjoy life after you get off work or you gone feel like you slaving away. Like PLEASE go have drinks on a random Wednesday. YES do that beach picnic too. That’s right, go practice pottery on a Tuesday evening. That go to work, go home, go to work, go home shit is 0/10
Manipulating someone into sex by falsely claiming you want a serious relationship is a form of sexual deception. It violates trust and undermines meaningful consent, even if it isn't legally categorized the same way as every form of sexual predation.
a man trying to sleep with you on the first date is a rejection. he is rejecting a relationship with you. he decided he didn’t like you enough on the date to date you properly and this is his way of getting his money’s worth to feel like he didn’t waste time.
People avoid taking accountability, then say, “You could’ve just talked to me.” But I couldn’t. You don’t really listen, you deflect, twist things into an attack, and then play the victim. Talking to you isn’t healing, it’s exhausting, draining, and emotionally suffocating. Every time I try to express myself, it feels like walking into a trap where my words are used against me, my intentions are questioned, and my feelings are dismissed.