Ask your partner how they slept, how their day was, about work, what's on their mind, why they've been quiet, why they are being sensitive, what they'd like to eat, and where they'd like to go; make it a habit. Never let them feel unseen, unheard, or ignored.
I usually tell my husband when I'm going to take a shower or a bath and he'll reply with "Information or Invitation?"
Never fails to make me giggle and answer with "Invitation". Lol
1. Immediately after checking in
2. After we’ve settled in and changing before going to the pool
3. Before showering
4. After dinner
5. Before sleeping
6. 3am
7. After waking up
8. Before breakfast
Mothers, please can we discuss something honestly?
If nipple stimulation was something you were very sensitive to sexually before childbirth, did that change for you after birthing your kid(s)?
Also, did childbirth affect your libido in any way?
Thank you.
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@courtnelc I had someone replying to me who was saying all penetration was extremely painful and I was like hey that's medically not supposed to happen. You should go see a doctor and they went. "No, it's normal"
Let me explain, it's painful to be going at the same intensity. When we're nearing climax, it's like a sprint to the top to avoid losing that momentum or we might have to start over. Once we have reached climax, we don't stop, which ruins the orgasm, but instead we stop sprinting and reduce our movement to like 10% intensity, as if we are massaging the rest of the orgasm out.
So if you're finishing a man with your mouth for example, and they climax and you are still at "sprint intensity," that is WAY too overstimulating at that phase and actually unpleasant. The moment climax starts, you immediately shift into the gentle and relaxing relief movement of that round of sex. It's a great time to hold on to each other tight and gently ride it out.