New poll: How do you react wahen someone tries to hit you up, but they are either out of your age range, not the body type you are into, or don’t have the vibe you are looking for?
@FoosaBoi@GayRepublicSwag I’m not sure the logic here, but I’m sure that is likely an outdated concept. Here is a link about it, but seems it was intended to promote hetero men marrying younger women. Early to mid 1900’s and not relevant today.
https://t.co/DM7xVNSlum
@jeansefrance@DudleyNYC@GayRepublicSwag I mean, I may be the only one who will say this, but two things. 1. How hot one in the relationship is over the other is subjective, superficial, and has no bearing on whether it’s ok or not. 2. A bulky gym bro is not hot to me. Flexibility over flexing any day.
@GayRepublicSwag Imo, there is nothing innately wrong with this. First, both are consenting adults. And I have seen both 19 and 38 yos that are at about equal maturity. As far as “grooming” there is also nothing innately wrong with grooming between consenting adults, 1 wanting xp and 1 sharing xp
@GayRepublicSwag Also as a side note, I’d like to make an observation. It is ok if some stick to generational lines. If everyone was in college at 20, grad school at 26, married at 30, home owner at 35, and empty nesters by 40, then it would make sense. But no one has the same life progression.
So 82 views and no responses. Well, that sucks, but I think I get why. Even though it’s late, my answer to this is to politely decline. But yeah, I’ll try to make the next one more spicy and less of a call out. Lol Kinda expected it, but hope it caused some reflection at least.
New poll: How do you react wahen someone tries to hit you up, but they are either out of your age range, not the body type you are into, or don’t have the vibe you are looking for?
New poll: How do you react wahen someone tries to hit you up, but they are either out of your age range, not the body type you are into, or don’t have the vibe you are looking for?
14. Meeting up is not rocket science. 1. Are we on Grindr cause we’re available and looking? 2. Do we think each other is hot? 3. When are we wanting to meet? It’s that simple. Please stop overthinking it.
Ok. I feel I need to call out some bs right now. The gay community is broken. I don’t know how many things I’m gonna list here, but we’ll see. I’ll list them in the comments. Let’s see how many I can list.
13. The most comfortable car or video store will never replace my living room or bedroom. Now, if anyone has an explanation for why so many only want to meet up at video stores or in a car instead of actually relaxing at someone’s place, please tell me. Just makes no sense to me.
12. @Grindr uses fake or curated accounts as sub-bait to drive app usage. This means the expectation you have set based on the number of unrealistically hot younger guys you see in the grid is based on the fake avg. Start grounding your expectations in the reality in your area.