Mature love isn’t about being swept away. It’s about conscious choices.
It’s about planning, teamwork, & vision.
It’s about partnership, not blind emotion.
Mature love will require you to lead & be led.
To give & receive.
It’s grounded in awareness.
The purest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you
You can’t love someone out of their trauma. You can’t push someone enough to heal. You can’t rescue someone from their own choices. The instinct to view people as self improvement projects usually comes from having to ‘fix’ a parent— marriage issues, financial issues, become their therapist etc.
You’re being healed and restored cellularly, spiritually, physically, and mentally. A new you is emerging so be patient with yourself as you are transforming in so many ways. It’s only the beginning for your grand life filled with strength, wisdom, love, and understanding.
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Relationships should feel: uplifting, supportive, and overall mutually beneficial.
Of course there will be ‘tough times’ and painful moments. People will hurt us. We all hurt each other.
But if pain, hurt, and resentment are all that’s present, it might be time to choose yourself.