Precious Edunoh

Attracted to intelligent people-I mean all round intelligence! I Love good food. Favorite quote: a woman can never have too many clothes and shoes..

[Precious Edunoh @JstPresh]

@OEbenezer43574 I am keenly interested

[Precious Edunoh @JstPresh]

@LeadHerLogic I am very interested. Can I get the link please

[Matriarch @_Matriach]

Lol.

You can still be a single mother even if you did proper wedding.

Is it not this life again?

Better watch how you’re mocking people.

[Lilyallly❤️🇬🇧 @lilyally98]

Who can become single mom

1. Married women whose males die

2. Single women who have kids for males

3.Married women whose males becomes deadbeats

4. Married women who gets divorced

5. Married women with useless males as husbands.

Any of this can happen to your or sister

[Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) @EmotionsDoctor]

There is so much shame reserved for women,

Women are shamed for being single,

Shamed for not "getting married early",

Shamed for not having a child,

For not shedding weight after childbirth,

Not wanting a child or a man,

Shamed for having a divorce,

Shamed for being pre-menopausal,

Shamed for your child's mistakes and excesses,

Shamed for having female children,

Shamed for not loving how to cook,

Shamed for being outspoken and assertive,

For being career-driven,

Shamed for everything mere mortals can conceive.

The fragrance of shame is renewed every morning by humans who are ready to remind you of your inadequacies,

Ensure you never feel good enough.

Some hold onto your past because it is spiced in shame.

Women need to unlearn shame,

Members of the Fluffy Life Club, need to learn how to be shameless.

We need to learn how to have a great relationship with hatred, envy, jealousy, gossip, etc

How not to whimper when humans despise you because not everyone will like or respect you and it's fine.

You also don't have to hurt anyone to be detested, some will inherit the contempt while some will loathe you just because they detest themselves too.

Unlearn shame today,

Resist every feeling of inadequacy and shameful labels.

Own your failures and successes with your chest.

So when the shame servers emerge, tell them not today, Satan.

I am good enough.

[Tunde Onakoya @Tunde_OD]

You’ll never believe the amount of life changing opportunities you could get in life by just dressing well, smelling nice and showing up.

Yes, people judge a book by it’s cover. Life becomes a lot easier once you accept this and use it to your advantage.

[Adanne feminist🏳️‍🌈🌈 @IjeomaOgood]

Personally, TO ME, 'marry a kind partner' sounds like victim-blaming.

I don't know a single person who goes out of their way and says, "I'm going to do everything in my power to make sure I marry an unkind partner."
And before you say,'the signs are always there!' Are they?

[SisiYėmmié.com 🌶 @Sisi_Yemmie]

“Marry Kind People”… as if dem dey plaster “winsh/devil” on peoples foreheads.

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

Ultimately, if you’ve been forgiven once, please, do not take their forgiveness for granted.

Try your best to stay faithful from thereon, and make them never regret their decision to give you another chance.

Next, we’ll discuss how to repair the relationship from the other partner’s perceptive🫶��

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

Blackmailing them.

Don’t do that. They’ve been really hurt and people process hurt differently. As long as they’re not trying to deliberately punish you by bringing up what has happened over and over again, give them all the time they need to work on their healing.

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

By how long it’s taking their partner to forgive them and let go, by how long they have to keep walking on egg shells and “grovelling.”

They want their partner to “move on” as soon as possible and “let it go.” Some might even be tempted to start gaslighting and emotional…

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

If you’re able to do this consistently for a good while, it’ll help resolve a great deal of their anxiety, and then, they can begin trusting you again.

4. Be patient and don’t feel entitled to their total forgiveness:

I’ve seen the person who cheated becoming frustrated…

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

Give them access to your phones, let them know where you’re going and who you’re hanging out with at every point in time. If you make any promises, keep to them. Don’t just go awol and be unreachable without good reason.

It might seem like a hassle, but trust me…

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

Endeavour to respond as honestly as possible each time. Swallow your pride and discomfort and give them what they need to heal.

3. Become transparent:

A huge part of repairing a relationship after cheating is rebuilding trust, and to do this, you have to be clear as glass.

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

But because they’re still trying to make sense of it all, still trying to make their peace with it.

To you, it might feel as though they’re trying to remind you of your shortcoming over and over again, but that’s not the case.

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

“Who are they?” “When did it start?” “How far did you two go?” “Did you love them?” “Why did you do it?”

Even after weeks, and sometimes months, they can just wake up and start asking you the same set of questions all over again. Not because they don’t already know the answer…

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

2. Swallow your pride and be willing to answer questions:

It’s common for people who have been cheated on to have a lot of questions, they just want to know everything they can as they believe it would give them some peace. That’s why you’d find your partner asking…

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

Also, don’t try to wash it down as a “mistake”, nah. Admit that you were wrong and show that you’re willing to take full responsibility for your actions.

Honestly, this is the first step in the right direction and would greatly determine how things would proceed from thereon.

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

1. You have to be ready to take full accountability without playing the blame game.

No trying to justify your actions, defend yourself, or imply in anyway that they were the reason why you went astray, that would only be rubbing salt on wound.

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

You cheated, your partner has decided to forgive you, here are some things to bear in mind as you begin repairing your relationship: