My wife makes $0 per year and she manages $0 of our bank accounts per year, besides the one that I replenish weekly for her spending needs.
If my wife was focused on a career and making money, we would no longer be married.
I know this because we tried it both ways.
The harsh reality is that most women don’t have a clue what it truly means to be feminine, so they become lost in personal illusions and cultural delusions about the what it represents.
It’s important for a woman to not overly focus on integrating the masculine roles of a relationship within herself, such as being a provider, protector, and leader.
Many women disregard this and choose otherwise, and some will even thrive in certain ways by living this way, but overall if a man and woman do not align with proper polarity dynamics, the relationship will needlessly suffer in ways where it could be thriving better.
This is my perspective, but I want to make it clear that everyone is different and at the end of the day, you should do what works best for your specific relationship.
If your relationship is truly thriving, forget all the things people are saying that tell you to do otherwise—including me.
My wife makes $0 income per year.
My wife manages $0 of our bank accounts per year, besides the one that I replenish weekly for her spending needs.
If my wife was focused on a career and making money, we would no longer be married.
The harsh reality is that most women don’t have a clue what it truly means to be feminine.
It’s important for a woman to not overly focus on the aspects of the masculine roles within a relationship, such as being a provider, protector, and leader.
Many can choose otherwise, and some will even thrive, but overall if you do not align with proper polarity dynamics, the relationship will needlessly suffer in ways where it could be thriving better.
I have my views on this, and other people have theirs, but at the end of the day, everyone should do what works best for them.
If your relationship is truly thriving, forget all the things that people are pushing on you that tell you to do otherwise.
That’s my perspective.
Most people do not understand true polarity dynamics, and it’s much more nuanced than its binary nature might suggest.
The masculine and feminine ratios are not static, but dynamic and relative.
For example, a child is more feminine than a woman, but a woman is more feminine than a man.
There are moments or even certain domains when a child can be more masculine than a woman or a woman more masculine than a man, but rarely overall.
Then there are the domains of human experience—mental, emotional, physical, social, and spiritual—all operating with their own polarity spectrums of masculine and feminine energies.
A woman could be more mentally masculine than a man, but more feminine in every other way.
A man could be more emotionally feminine than a woman, but more masculine in every other way.
Many there are any infinite number of degrees and combinations of these nuanced polarity spectrums when it comes to masculine and feminine energies.
All this to say that the most important thing in my opinion is that the man is overall more masculine than the woman and the woman is more feminine than the man, especially when it comes to their roles in the relationship.
A lot of men like hot flirtatious women who dress sexy and are fun to be with.
A lot of women like strong confident men who are competent and successful.
Both seek loyalty and love.
If you don’t overcomplicate the truth of human nature, life is much more simple and enjoyable.
The greatest value a woman offers a man is her femininity.
Her sexual energy is an important aspect of her feminine nature.
For men with healthy testosterone, sex is a primary reason for him to be with a woman, and almost everything else is secondary.
This is the primal truth.
Men and women have different primal needs.
A woman must treat sex as one of the primary things she provides to fulfill her man.
If not, he will eventually find a different woman.
When she keeps her man fulfilled, he will work endlessly to provide her with resources, security, and leadership—which are all primal needs a feminine will require to feel fulfilled by her man.
@rorynotsorry We only have 2 kids, but we wish that we would’ve had more!
Creating a family is the most fulfilling thing you can do as a man and woman.
@GiaMMacool Men and women both benefit when they are aligned with their true human nature.
Men are designed to be more masculine and women are designed to be more feminine.
Many things in life are simple in life and people make their life harder by choosing to swim upstream needlessly.
@lovyPrimzy1 The greatest value a woman offers a man is her femininity.
Her sexual energy is an important aspect of her femininity.
For men with healthy testosterone, sex is a primary reason for him to be with a woman, and almost everything else is secondary.
This is the primal truth.