People really think they’ll be having sex every single time 😂
That first month? Yeah, you’re going at it every day, maybe even twice before breakfast. You’re basically allergic to clothes. But give it time and reality checks in. You go from 10+ times a week to 4-5, and that’s still a win.
Living together means sex is on tap 24/7, so eventually your brain goes, “Oh cool, it’s here if I want it” and chills out. When you don’t live together, every time you link up it’s straight to the bedroom before you even say “how was your day?” Scarcity does things to you.
But here’s the twist: living together unlocks other types of intimacy you couldn’t really tap into before. Cuddling while doing nothing, showering together without it turning into an Olympic event, falling asleep mid-convo. Your sex life isn’t dying — it’s just not the only player on the team anymore.
Less frequency doesn’t mean boring. It means you’ve got more ways to be close than just the obvious one.
Is there a community in South Africa for people working in or learning cloud, cybersecurity, data, and AI?
Not something exclusive or gatekept, but an open space where people genuinely share knowledge, collaborate, and help each other grow.
If it exists, where is it?
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