I think ppl are failing to recognize we are more than our love lives. You can have the perfect partner and relationship but you will have the same issues and insecurities.
Obsession is a projection. What are you lacking from yourself?
I’m sick of seeing so many women pining after men. Not because it’s pathetic or invalid, but because it’s too normalized for us to hate ourselves and keep ourselves in these cycles.
You are so much more than the person who couldn’t bother to put in the effort for you.
Throwback to the time my class read a book on the holocaust in the 5th grade and my teacher picked out vocab words to define and draw and one of them was “swatstika” so you had a class full of 11 year olds with swatstikas on their desks