i’m so proud of how far i’ve come along. i used to let other people’s opinions dictate my life and my happiness. and i’d let what others say define who i was as a person. now, i do my own thang. you either fw me or you don’t. you with me or you not. i’m big chillin
Happiness is not just a mood, it's a work ethic.
Happiness can be increased with certain behaviors:
• Pursue meaningful goals
• Cultivate optimism and gratitude
• Scan the world for opportunities
• Maintain meaningful social relationships
ANYONE can do those things.
A woman on Tik Tok said, “If you’re not in my life anymore, it doesn’t mean that I think you’re a bad person. I don’t deem people good or bad. I deem people to be safe or unsafe. Aligned or misaligned. Because I’m not available for people I have to protect myself from.” Whew 🔥
adulting be like “let’s grab lunch sometime” “yeah sure!” “tuesday @ 12:30pm?” “sounds good!”
*tuesday arrives* “so sorry something came up i can’t make it” “i was just about to msg u! i can’t make it either!” “let’s reschedule!” “yes! okay!”
*never plans to meet ever again*