nobody talks about the amount of guilt you feel when you finally decide to leave someone you genuinely love, because they continuously hurt you and refuse to change. if this is you, i’m sending tight hugs for you! ♡
honestly, if u know how difficult and how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow in their lives.
Giving your partner alone time and space would solve so many issues. Y’all are just so obsessed with this culture of being up under somebody 24/7. Suffocation makes shit expire at a faster rate. Relax and just be by yourself. It’s okay to maintain your individuality.