my first time ever smoking a cig with someone, I remember he told me he wished I was a girl so he could shotgun smoke from me. I’m no longer friends with him, but sometimes I kinda just think about that whenever I smoke.
@Kyup11d@cloudrako_o May her soul rest, but still fetishization doesn’t make you feel seen as a person, or understood. It’s a horrible thing to go through.
@FinalViolaVII@cloudrako_o girl, please don’t ever let them trick you into believing that blatant fetishization is better. It’s just two sides of the same coin.
@cloudrako_o I wouldn’t call statements such as “cake is cake, even if it has a candle” genuine support. I see it more as sexualization, which can be dehumanizing as it doesn’t really highlight being a femboy at all. When people chalk you up to genitals its not really supportive.