At some point you really have to tell yourself “this is not an experience I want to keep having” and stop entertaining things that don’t benefit you in any way.
The fact that a competent and qualified Black woman has to go up for a job against a clearly incompetent and unhinged man is such a spot on representation of so much of the experience of being a Black woman in this world #Debate2024
Today I read that butterflies rest when it rains because it damages their wings. It's okay to rest during the storms of life. You'll fly again when it's over.
You can’t surround yourself with insecure people who think your growth is a competition to them. It's a damaging mindset. Those kinds of people will sink the whole ship just because they can't be the captain. Find confident people who want to uplift you and be better WITH you.
if you see beyoncé live and don’t leave wanting to be the BEST at whatever you do.. nothing will ever inspire you. it’s THAT incredible. there’s no way you can watch her do her thing for 3 hours and then go back home and choose to keep playing small. she’s inspiring AF.
Just in case you need it: settings & support > settings & privacy > accessibility display & languages > accessibility > video auto play > select “never”
So that videos on your timeline don’t automatically play without your consent