Ibn al Qayyim رحمه الله said
There is nothing more beloved to Shaitan than the sadness of a believer.
Therefore, rejoice, be hopeful, remain optimistic, and think well of Allah, so that you may enjoy peace of mind.
-[Tariq al-Hijratayn (1/279)]
“Sesiapa yang meninggalkan maksiat kerana Allah, sedangkan jiwanya masih menginginkannya, maka Allah akan menggantikannya dengan iman di dalam hatinya, kelapangan dada dan ketenangan, keberkatan dalam rezekinya, serta kesihatan pada tubuhnya.”
— Al-Fawākih Ash-Shahīyyah, 1/138.
Pernah nampak sticker #memburumamamuda atau #kelabMJ atau #pemburuMJ ?
Kau yang pasang tu pastinya dah atas 45 tahun, dah tak laku, bulu ketiak berselirat dan kononnya Mr Funny Guy dengan sticker gitu.
Meh aku nak ingatkan sikit.
Bayangkan mama muda tu anak kau.
Kelakar tak lagi sticker tu?
Jangan jatuhkan martabat kita. Kita ni jantan, patutnya jadi pelindung. Bukan buat joke bangsat menjatuhkan martabat orang.
Setiap kali aku nampak sticker atas powil kau, atau motor kau, terus aku dah agak apa kapasiti pendidikan kau.
Paling win, ada pulak sticker ayat Quran sekali. Sungguh biul.
Kalau kita asyik ikutkan sangat 'mood' naik turun, kita takkan sampai ke mana.
Kadang-kadang, kita kena paksa diri untuk "stick with the plan" walaupun masa tu kita rasa paling tak bermotivasi.
Kejayaan tu datang dengan disiplin, bukan dengan emosi.
Ibn al-Qayyim رَحْمَۃُ اللّٰہ ِ عَلَیْہ:
"Most sins are a result of unnecessary speech and looking at impermissible things."
[Badaa'i al-Fawaa'id v. 2 | p. 820]
Ibn Taymiyyah رحمه الله:
Non-Mahram can't be trusted even if they were the most fearing (of Allah). For indeed, hearts change rapidly and the shaytan is on the lookout; verily the Prophet ﷺ said,
‘A man is not alone with a woman except that the third of them is the shaytan.’
Umar رضي الله عنه said:
“And must every household be built upon love?
What about loyalty and appreciation? Or was anyone forcing you to marry her when you married her?”
DASYATNYA TAUBAT ✨
Jangan pernah berputus asa daripada rahmat Allah SWT. Sebesar mana pun dosa yang pernah dilakukan, pintu keampunan-Nya sentiasa terbuka buat hamba yang kembali dengan penuh keinsafan.
The Prophet (ﷺ) said:
”Whoever continuously seeks Allah's forgiveness, Allah will make a way out for him from every hardship, from every anxiety, and will provide him with sustenance from where he does not expect.”
-[Sunan Abu Dawud-1518]
استغفرالله واتوب إليه
A man was once asked, "How do you find peace during hardships?"
He replied, "I stopped questioning why and started saying,
'Hasbunallah wa ni'mal wakeel'
Allah is sufficient for me, and He is the best disposer of affairs."
Istighfar.
Banyak orang yg ga sadar hal ini.
Ketika kamu merasakan penderitaan dalam hidup, perbanyaklah istighfar.
Kenapa?
Karena penderitaan itu berat kalau dipikul sendiri dan akan jauh lebih ringan jika kamu berserah diri kepada "sosok" yg lebih besar.
Gak peduli sebesar apapun masalahmu, Allah SWT selalu lebih besar.
Dan salah satu cara berserah diri adalah dgn beristighfar, mengakui kesalahan dan ketidakberdayaan.
Insya Allah, hidup akan jauh lebih ringan.
The most difficult deeds are three:
✔️ To be generous when you have a little.
✔️To fear Allaah when you're alone.
✔️To speak the truth in front of someone you hope for (a worldly gain from), or fear.
Imam Shafi'i, Tarikh Madinatu Dimshiq (v. 51, p. 411)
Salamah ibn Dinar رحمه الله said
"There are three qualities that whoever has them, his intellect will become complete, and whoever has one [of these three qualities], a third of his intellect becomes complete:
1) He knows his level,
2) and preserves his tongue,
Qatadah رحمه الله stated
"Beware of overburdening (oneself), delving too deep (into matters), extremism and being amazed with oneself. Be humble and Allah will raise you up (to a noble status with Him)."
[Siyar A'lām An-Nubalā 5/276]
Intinya, meninggalkan sholat meskipun hanya sekali, dosanya lebih gede dari dosa mana pun. Kecuali dosa syirik.
So, standar muslim setelah tauhid ya sholat 5 waktu. 5 waktu guys, bukan hanya maghrib dan isya aja.
Yahya ibn Mu’ādh رحمه الله said:
The inheritance of knowledge is better than the inheritance of gold and silver.
And the righteous soul is better than pearls.
And knowledge cannot be attained with the comfort of the body.
[جامع بيان ١/٣٨٤]
Ibn Taymiyyah (رحمه الله )said:
"If you fear Allah, repent from your sins and seek his forgiveness, nobody can overpower you."
[Majmoo' al-Fataawa 1/178]