Unfortunately, sometimes you have to be a little mean to make people realize you're not someone to be played with. Not everyone respects kindness. but they will respect boundaries.
I have a deep respect for people's privacy. I can be very close to someone for years and still not know everything about them, and I never feel the need to ask. And It's not like I don't care. I believe that if someone hasn't chosen to share something, it isn't my place to ask!!
Yall are idiotic if you think this was to defend side chick.. I’m just showing yall how dumb yall sound. The loser in the situation is always the CHEATER.. there’s so no “side” or “main” just two dummies being manipulated by a cheater