baby showers are not "just to celebrate that a baby is coming", baby showers are to get gifts. baby showers are part of "it takes a village."
weddings and birthdays can be a toss up, it *can* just be wanting to celebrate, but baby showers are to help people get what they need!
Here are some rules of etiquette I have seen young women break recently:
1. your bridal or baby shower should not be hosted by yourself or your mother. It can be hosted by your sister, a cousin, a friend or a group of people. It is considered rude for you or your mother to host your own bridal or baby shower.
all branches of the US government uniting across the aisle to ban a social media app this quickly while ignoring school shootings for years, ignoring women’s health, healthcare, homelessness, etc etc should radicalize the fuck out of you btw 🤍