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“Commissioner of police in Delta state, allow me to enjoy my vacation in peace. The tagging is too much. What is gr&p3 festival in Delta State? Did the Commissioner of police don’t know his job? Everybody should be arrested.”
— Xxssive, SA on media to Delta State governor.
i was reading Surah An’am and found a verse that says, “Your Lord has made it obligatory upon Himself to be merciful to you.” i stopped, put my Quran down, and just sat there amazed, the one who doesn’t need anything from me has made it a rule for Himself to show me mercy? 1/2
Twitter Nigeria suddenly started acting like men don't rape women. Overnight, the country apparently gained the best justice and medical systems in the world, perfectly equipped to deliver justice in every single rape case.
The conversations get loudest only when a rape allegation turns out to be false, not when it's a confirmed case. Want to know why?.
Come closer, I'll tell you. I don't care about your feelings, they're going to get hurt. This is a splash free zone. Don't bother putting on your emotional armor; it won't help.
Most of you want every rape accusation to be false so desperately that when you finally get that one in a million case, you scream it from the rooftops. You broadcast it to the world and build this facade: "See? This is what they all are."
Don't even get me started on the reality: thousands of girls are raped every year around the world, and that's just the reported cases. More than double that number never get spoken about (global estimates show 60-90% of rapes go unreported due to fear, stigma, and victim blaming; in Nigeria, studies suggest even higher under-reporting, with some saying 8 out of 9 cases stay hidden). Don't come here to argue with me. Go check the facts first.
Raping another human being requires a mentally deranged person. Sex is meant to be enjoyable and consensual. If you participate in rape, you are mentally abnormal, mentally unstable. And if you see nothing wrong with the act itself, something is seriously wrong with you mentally too. It's not enough to be loud only when a case is proven false. Where is that same energy when the accusation is actually true?
In Nigeria, bad news barely moves people anymore. Terrorists can slaughter 200 people in a village and life goes on as usual. So it's no surprise that rape doesn't shake you either "worse things have happened," right?.
Many of you are not mentally okay. Your mental space is gradually being damaged, and when people outside your bubble see your reactions, it becomes sickening.
So much so that it has become normal to tell girls not to walk at night, to protect themselves from us, the men. We tell them what kind of clothes to wear, we tell them to cover themselves, we tell them to hide who they are for their own protection. Wait, who is telling little boys to keep their shit in their pants? Who is telling them it's abnormal to not seek consent at every step of a sexual act? And whoever dares to speak up gets vilified like there's no tomorrow, every Dick, Tom, and Harry suddenly remembers how to dig up old tweets and play detective.
My point is not to defend false rape accusations. You don't know me, and that's fine. I've spoken loudly against false claims. I've called out women who pollute the seriousness of rape with selfish lies. I've explained how those actions destroy the courage real victims need to speak up.
But Nigerians, there is a time for everything. I've always talked about timing. If I say I don't like oranges, this isn't the moment for you to tell me how much you love apples. This is the time to ask: Why did I say that? What led to my position? It's perfectly okay if you don't like my stance, you don't have to. But you don't need to derail the conversation right now.
I haven't been on twitter today - but someone brought a few of my old tweets to my attention and I can't not address it.
14 years ago, I was 23, so I was definitely not a child. I'm not here to make excuses because I don't have anything to make excuses for. What I can't let anyone do is twist my story to fit false narratives.
In 2012, I lived and helped out at my mom's daycare while I was hustling my music. I tweeted everything that happened in my life, as we all did at the time. Kids can be mischievous. If a child did something I found funny, I tweeted about it. Kids are cute and lovable. I want to hug, kiss and cuddle them. I tweet about it. Nothing I tweeted was from perversion.
I was not famous, so maybe if I was, I would have understood that anything is open to whatever interpretation including being used falsely by a faceless mob. I've never been depraved in my life. You can retweet all the tweets in the world about me loudly crushing on people I admire/d. Or being a cheeky young woman. I wasn't trying to hide it, because I don't have anything to hide.
My team has been deleting some of my tweets because of how sensitive it is for my family. To be honest, I did not want to. I have always spoken against rape and sexual assault even before you knew I existed. It's not a costume I'm wearing, it's who I am. I've never claimed to be perfect. I've never claimed to know everything. I said stop raping women. I stand by it.