Sudah mengirim somasi ke nomor yang mengancam, saya lampirkan juga somasinya secara terbuka melalui twit ini, agar bisa dijadikan periksa oleh pihak terkait.
Silahkan bagi warganet yg mau menggunakan substansi somasinya bila mengalami situasi serupa. Bisa dikirim secara pribadi.
My man recently just said something to me that really stuck.
He told me, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”
He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.
I arrived in Indonesia as a young man in '93, just as the body of a 24-year-old activist named Marsinah was found in a forest. She had stood up to a factory backed by the military. The trial was a sham, a scripted play to protect the powerful. I learned then: in Indonesia, the law is often a weapon, not a shield. 1/10